不幸遭遇家暴能改的吗

 yijunanshengdesuozaiziranhuanjinghebenshenqingkuang，kefenchengkeyijiuzheng，wufajiuzheng，jieyuyukeyijiuzhenghewufajiuzhengzhongjiandengzhuangkuang，wufayigaierlun。yingduijiatinglengbaolidenansheng，yixienvrenxuanzeleqianrang，yexushipazaoshoujinyibudesunhai。quebuzhidao，neimezuofandaohenyoukenengnanyirangzishencongjiatinglengbaolizhongbaituo。jiatingbaolizenmebancongjintiankaishi，changshigengjinyibuguanchanansheng，suihouchangshirangqigenggaihuoshihualidezhuanshen，jiabaolihuncainenggoujiniderichangshenghuoyuelaiyuegengweixingfu。

是能够改的

 jinguanyikaishihenyoukenengyixienanduxishu，keshishishishangyixiejiatinglengbaolidenanshenghuanshiyounenggaidegailvde。weishenmeshuotianyalangzijiuhuibuletouni?meiyigerenhenyoukenengzonghuiyouyiduanbuchengshudesuiyuede。shehuifazhanshanghenyoukenengjiyutamenjiaoshaodebaorong，danshihuanshiyouxuduonansheng，tamenshizhishanghuanshihaode，keshiyouyujiazhonghuoshiyixiebuxingzaoshouweihai，henyoukenengranshangleyixiebuhaodexiguan。jiaruyouyigenenggoushiyongtaderendehua，jianxinlingyifangshihuijinigenggaide。rujinshehuifazhanneiyangdeshiliyebuzaishaoshu，yixienanshenghenyoukenengzaihunqianyongyou yixiebuhaodexiguan，keshizaihunhou，yuelaiyuewanshan，xuehuilekuanrong，xuehuilegenggai，shuangfangdouhuodelexingfukuaile。yaorangneiyangdenanshenggenggai，xiangyaoniyouyidingdexixinhezixinxin，suihouchangshiquyingxianglingyifang，neiyangtamencaihuixiangyaoqujiena。jilingyifangyigejiyu，yeweizijiyigejiyu，jiabaolihunsheiyounengshuoxingfukuailemeiyouzishendeshenpangni?

是难以改的

 zhenduijishaoshujiatingguanxiyouqibutaihaohuoshirenshengdaoluzaoshoujudaweihaicihouhenxiaochenjiejueshiqingdenanshengeryan，genggaishinanyibaozhengde。suhuashuodehao：benxingnanyi，jiangshanyigai。neiyangdenanshengyinweishoujiatingguanxideweihai，ranshangleyixiebutaihaodezuofeng。zaipingchangjiaowangdequanguochengzhizhong，yefeichangrongyizaochengjiatinglengbaoli。xuduonvshiyingduijiatinglengbaoli，yongqianranglaijiejue，neiyangdejieguozongshidebuchangshi。yigezhenshichengshunanren，shiburongyibayuyanzuoweibaolixingweidezhuanyonggongjude。henyoukenengnideneixinhenshanjierenyi，ganjuelingyifangshihuigenggaide，keshishijizhonghuanshiyouyixiebuchenggongdeshilide。xuduonvshiyechangshiqugoutongjiaoliu，keshilingyifangwudongyuzhong，naizhiganjueyanjuan。ziran，shizhehuanshibixude。keshi，jiarulingyifangwudongyuzhong，huanshidulaiduwangdehua，neima，tuierqiuqiciyeweicengbingbushiyizhongmingzhidexuanze。shijieshangdehaolaogonghuanshixuduode，hebiyaozhemozijini?jianxinziji，nichedinenggouxunzhaogengqiangde。

必须看另一方本身的意向和勤奋

 ziran，yeyouxuduonansheng，tamenjieyuyunenggoujiuzhenghenanyijiuzhengzhongjian。zheileizhuangkuangxia，nengfougaichukainvxingdeqinfenwai，feichangdashuipingshangzaiyunanshengxibuxihuangenggai。suhuashuodehao，nishizhongyejiaohunmibuxingyigezhuangshuideren。zaichangshiqinfenyiqian，shifouyingdangxiankanyixiazheigenanrenzhibuzhinitouruni?jiaruzheigenanrenpinxinghuanshiruguokeyidehua，neimashizhetouruyeshikeyide。youyurenwuwanrenrenfeishengxian。keshijiaruzheigenanrenmingzhidaozishenchangchangyingyongyuyanmanma，keshibuyuanyiqugenggai。jibiannitouruqinfen，lingyifangyiranshierbujian，naizhiyaoxiangyongjiatinglengbaolilaiweihaini，neima，jiatingbaolizenmebanjixiwangyuneiyangdenanshenggenggaishishifenkunnande。shexiangyixia，yigeduizhenshiguanzhuzishenderendoubukeyilejie，naizhihuiqusunhailingyifang，neiyangdenanshengfeichangzhideniquaima?neiyangdenanshengfeichangzhidenilaitouruma?yinci ，kehuanhenangaizhongjiandetianpingchengzuihouquxiangyunayibian，feichangdayibufenzaiyutaziji。zishenbukenqinfen，sheiyewanjiubule，bushima?