当家庭暴力发生在你的面前时，应该如何去应对？

 jiabaojiushizhijiatingzhuyaochengyuanzhongjianyiouda、kunfu、pohai、qiangzhixiandingrenshenziyouquanjiqixiguanxingruma、hehudengfangfazhixingderenti、jingshenshizhidengsunhaigerenxingwei。yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？guojiayanjinyiqiefangshidejiabao。tebiezhuyideshi，jiatingzhuyaochengyuanjiandejingshenshizhisunhaiyelierulaidaojiabaodecengmian。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

 yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？jiabaobudanzhixianyufufu、ernvdengjiashuzhongjian，“jiatingzhuyaochengyuanzhiwaixianghuyishizhuxingderenzhongjianzhixingdebaoliqingxiang，yecankaocifangfayaoqiushixing”，zheihuanjuhuashuo，tongjuguanxidengjiatingzhuyaochengyuanzhiwaixianghuyishizhuxingderenzhixingbaoli，yebeishizuojiatingbaoli。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

 jiatingbaolidehuatitaolunchixubeigesegeyangcanburendudexinwenbaodaoyizaitidao，chixugengxinzherenmendesanguan，zaizheigenvshiziliziqiangdehuyurijiandingfeideshiqi，jiatingbaoliyici，kanqilaiyouqizhayan。

 yijuzhongguofulianhezhongguotongjiju2013niandediaoyan，you24.7%decaifangnvshizaihunyinshenghuozhongzaodaoguobuyiyangfangshidejiabao，you7.8%dexiangcunfunvquelibiaodashoudaozhixiqinshudeouda。zheidaibiao，zaiwoguode3.2yixiangcunfunvzhong，youyigejueduizongshushifenjudaderenqunyishizhuxingyuhaipazhong。tamensaluozailiaokuowoguodemeigejiaoluoli，batongkuyinzangzaifangmenhou。

 yijulianheguoertongjijinhuizhizhudeyixiangkexueyanjiu，caifangxiangcunfunvzaodaojiabaohou，zuipubiandesileifanyingshi：bulicailaogong，daomeiyourendediququ，zishenpingtangzhebutibumian，bugensuoyourenjiang。youzhishanggerenxingweidenvxinggezizhan42.3%、40.2%、35.5%he22.3%，zhineng0.7%denvxinghuitiaoxuanjingbao，1%denvxinghuiqurenminfayuan，6%denvxinglejiezhaofunvlianhehuihecunminweiyuanhui。youcikejian，zainongcunzhong，zaodaojiatingbaolihou，nvshigengxiangyao"yigerenren"，waibuyibanyebuhuijijidalizhichi。

而我还在碰到家庭暴力的状况下应该怎么办?

一.独立自尊自爱和自立

 wulunshisuoyourenzuixianbixuxuehao，duli，zizunziai，zili。richangshenghuoniwubixuehuiduli，xuehaozizunziai，mingbaizili。dangnilianzheizhongdouburongyizenmerangtarenlaizhongshini。zaodaojiabaodenvxingxuduo quanshibukeyidulizizunziaihezilidenvxing，tamenzaixingqingshangcunyouzherouruo，zaixingdongshangqianqueqipo，jingshenshijiequefaduli。nvxingyingdangmingbailianglierwei，bushihedejinzaofenli，tashiduizishendezizunziai。

二.根据法律法规保护自己

 zaijinjizhuangkuangxia，zaoshoujiabao，yaojingbao。yiju《zhonghuarenmingongheguohunyinfa》di43tiaodeyaoqiu，zhixingjiabaohuolingnvejiatingzhuyaochengyuan，shouhaizheyouquanlimingquetichukenqiu，shequjuweihui、cunweihuijiqisuoshudanweiliyingjiyuquanshuodiaochu。

 1、duiyijingzhixingdejiabao，shouhaizheyouquanlimingquetichukenqiu，shequjuweihui、cunweihuiliyingjiyuquanshuo;gonganbumenliyingjiyuquanzu。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

 2、zhixingjiabaohuolingnvejiatingzhuyaochengyuan，shouhaizhemingquetichukenqiude，gonganbumenliyinganzhaotufashijianyingduichengfadefalvfaguijiyuxingzhengxuke。”congzhishangfatiaonenggoukandechu，jiaruyidanjingbao，gonganbumenwubijiejing，erqiewubijiyuquanzu，jiarushouhaizhemingquetichukenqiude，gonganbumenliyingchengfa。

 3、jiarurentizaoshousunhai，yaozaidiyishijiankanyisheng，bingbaocunxiayanshanghuibao、dafubinglizhengmingdeng，zheizhongzhihoudounenggouzuoweicunyoujiabaodeyouyizhijiezhengju。yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？

4、shoujixiangji;jiaruzaizaoshoujiabaoshi，nikeyiyongshoujijiangquanguochengpaixia，yeshiyizhongzhijiezhengjulaiyuanyu。

5、jiarenhaikeyizuozheng(birulaonianrenhuoshixiaohai)。

 6、buxienuli，lingyifangrengbubianbaolibuliangxiguan，liyibukeduodeyizhonglixingdetiaoxuan，zheiyeshijiejuejiabaodeyizhongfangshi。

三.具有一定的分辨“观查”工作能力

 nikeyixuehaoguancha，jiabaodezaocheng，chukaiyouyibufenyuangushiyinweibicidexingqingbuhehuoshishimoufangbaonve，qiyeyoufeichangyibufenshiyouyubicizaochenglefenqiyihou，yifanghuoshuangfangdoumeinengjishichulihuoduofangmianjiejue。ji，tamenbingmeiyoujuyouyidingdefenbian“guancha”degongzuonengli。zuoweiyiduifuqi，qimaniyinggaigaoqingchulingyifangdeaihao，xintaifazhanqushiguilvxing，lejietashenmeqingkuangjianghuihuinaopiqi。zhinengjuyoulezheiyigongzuonengli，。zuishaonenggoucongmouzhongyiyishanghelifangzhijiabaodechansheng。

 san.juyouyidingdefenbian“guancha”gongzuonenglinikeyixuehaoguancha，jiabaodezaocheng，chukaiyouyibufenyuangushiyinweibicidexingqingbuhehuoshishimoufangbaonve，qiyeyoufeichangyibufenshiyouyubicizaochenglefenqiyihou，yifanghuoshuangfangdoumeinengjishichulihuoduofangmianjiejue。

 ji，tamenbingmeiyoujuyouyidingdefenbian“guancha”degongzuonengli。zuoweiyiduifuqi，qimaniyinggaigaoqingchulingyifangdeaihao，xintaifazhanqushiguilvxing，lejietashenmeqingkuangjianghuihuinaopiqi。zhinengjuyoulezheiyigongzuonengli，。zuishaonenggoucongmouzhongyiyishanghelifangzhijiabaodechansheng。

 yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？zheiliquangaodahuoer，yingduijiatingbaoli，shidezuofajiushishuo，yidanfajue，mashangdujue！qianwanbiewangtuyongdashihuaxiaodefangfaquxiwanglingyifangdegenggai！youganqingjichu，bukeyiganqingyongshi。meiyouyishizhuxingjibende，dangduanbuduanfanshouqiluan。