婚后，经常受到丈夫的家庭暴力，应该怎么办才好

 zhangfushiruzhuinvxu，woliangwanhunyousansinianle，tacongshangniangangkaishijingchangjiatingbaoliwo，yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？shuochengzaiwomenjiashouleguoduodeqi，yinciyaopodaowoshenshang。wogaizenmezuo？jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？

 yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？jinguanwoduitanxunjiatingbaolidebuyiyangxintaizhuangtaidongjihenganxingqu，keshi，wojuedefangaiwodiyishijianduiquanbuyuanguhefangshidejiatingbaolishuo“no”。jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？，haiguidingtaganjitilinghuohushitashi，neimayoujudadegailv，tamingandezizunxinyouyitianhuiwanquanfensui，henduonianyanzangzaixinlidenaonuhejingonghuipenyongerchu。jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？

往往说“很多年”，

shiyouyutahuibayouxiaodaodashoudezui，yigunaoersuanzainvxingjiazhongdeshenshang，

erbujinshijiehunhoudeliangnian，tahuoxuhaipazhengmiangongjiqianghandeyuefuyuemu，

yincizhuanweiruoxiaoxiefen，jijiatingbaolilaopo，genjusunhaitalaiduifunvxingjiazhong。

可是，

就算如上常说，

 taqueshishoulejialirendeqi，renmennenglejietadetihui，danzheiyiranbukeyibianchengtajiatingbaolinideyuanyin，tashihaowugenjudetuoci，niqianwanbiebeimengbi。yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？

lejietabuyiweizheyaojienatajiatingbaoli，doubuyiweizheyaokuanrong。

xianeryijian，zuorendeyuanzeshi“renbukeyiyouyuzishendetongchuersunhaibieren”，

 tebieshizainizhangfushichediyoutiaoxuangongzuonenglidechengnianren，pinkunchushengderenduodeshi，genjuzishendeqinfen，jiusuanshizaishigonggongdiganhuo、zuokuaididounengzhuandaoqian，

再退一步说，

jiusuantajiehunhoufajueshierbibushangdechangsuoyuan，haikeyihouhuimojisuihoutiaoxuanliyia。

genghekuang，yeyoulingyizhonggailv，tachangshuodeshoujialideqishuodaodikongxuelaifeng。

xuduorenyouyutarendeyigewuyijiandemuguangjiukeyilingyifangshale。

怎么回事？

 youyutaganjuelingyifangkantademuguanglichongmanlebiyiheqiaobuqi，danzheiyoukenengchedijiushishuotazijidetouyingbingfeikeguanshishi。

同样，

 nidezhangfujianghuibenlaijiushishuoyigebeijujiatingguanxilizhangdaledebuzixin、naonuderen，neima，tamashanghuiyongshenhuisenaizhihuiheisedebianseyanjingduidaiquanqiuhebieren，budanyixinzhong，haizongjuedetarenqiyata、kanbuqita、jitamenqishou；

并且，

chuziyuweishengwudeziwobaohubennengfanying，tahaihuijixukexuanzexingdiguanxinlaiyuanyuziranhuanjinghebierendefumianxiaoxi。

因此，

youkenengnidejiazhongshiyiqiezhengchangkandaita，jinjinyoushihouyoufenqi、maodun，xiangyiqiejiazhongyiyang，

kezaitadeyanzhong、xinli，zheizhongdoushibeikuadaqici、waiqu，bianchengtajiatingbaolideyuanyin。

由此可见，

 zhenshidejiatingbaolizhederengetezhishiduoshaoshiwaiqu、chaojibiantaide，ertashichangnianjiyuechanshengde，meibanfazaiduanqineigenggai，tamenyefeichangshaohuijijixunqiubangzhu。

 shundaishuoxia，shibushijijixunzhaojishuzhuanyeyizhi，shichabiezhenweijiatingbaoli、jiqishibushiyouxiwanggenggaideyigehelifangshi，ziranbingbushijueduide。

yigeshenjingzhengshuizhundejiatingbaolizhedaguorenyaokuijiu、kuijiu，huijijihuojiaosuibiandebeiqinrenquandaoquzhaozixunguwen，

eryigerengezhangaishuizhunbijiaoyanzhong，huofanshehuirengeshiburongyiqiuzhide。

最终，

youyushejidaozhaozhui，wohuiyingyigepubiancuowuguannian，jidajiaduishuobailede“laohaoren”decuopan。

zaizhaonvxushi，henduorenhuiquxiangxuanzeyigejiajingpinkun、kanqilailaoshibajiaodenansheng，

kejingchangyifanneiyanghaoduogebuzhengque：

1.baneixiangxing、buxihuanshuohua、kouzhuo、daishajianyixiangdangyulaoshibajiao，kezheichedishiliangmashi。

jiduanhuadeshili，xiongfanbingbushilaohaoren，kexuduo juyoushangshuqingkuangdexianxiang。

neixiangxingmeihuaderenjianghuineixinyinan、buzixin、yanzangzhehenduobeiyayigandegongjinengli。

 2.laohaorenmeiyouhuairenhuaishijianghuijinjinyouyutamenmeijiyuhuomeiyouqian，yinciyebukeyijianyikanzhiqianshibushifanguoshijiuxiajielun。

3.renweilaohaorenhaoqiya，kexiaotuzijilehaiyaoshouni。

 zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？yiner，yidingyaozaijiehunqianhuayixieshijianjinliangquanfangweidizhangwolingyifang，duochupeng、duoguancha，chukaitaziji，haibaohantadejiatingguanxihesuojiaoyoudeng。