遇到婚后冷战怎么办？婚姻中的冷暴力也是一种精神虐待

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家庭冷暴力手册

躲避难题

找借口生疏

shilengshire，lingrenzhuomobutou

活得潇洒像个路人

拿婚姻关系而言!

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【挽留】

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情感是互相的。

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