冷战是什么意思？真正相爱的夫妻两人是不会做这几件事的

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？fufuliangrenjiujingxiangbuenai，youduoenai，shijishangfeichangrongyijiukeyikanchuqu。zhenshienaidefufu，wulunliangrenzhengchaochaodeyouduomededeqiangda，shijishangdaozuizhongdouburongyiweihailiangrendeqinggan，fandaohuiyulaiyuenai，danshiyoudefufu，yizhengchaobianshidalianggaidongyibandezhuyaobiaoxian，feichangrongyijiuyouyuyidiandiandesuoshiernaodegebendongxi。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？shijishangzhengchaozaihunyinshenghuolishiyijianzaiyiqiezhengchangdanshideshierle，kande，shiliangrenzhengchaohoubaichudexintai。zhenshienaidefufu，zhengchaoshiyidingburongyizuozhei5jianshier。

1、一方的摔门而去，另一方的视而不见

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？yuwangzhizhong，queshifeichangrongyijiuzuochurangzishenhouhuimojideshier，yigerendeshuaimenerqu，weimingshangshichulailizhiyixia，jianxinsuoyourenyiwaichu，jiugangkaishihouhuile。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？zhenshienaidefufu，juebunengzuoneiyangdeshier，tamenwulunchaodeyouduomededeqiangda，rengranshouhouzaixianghudeshenpang，gaiganshenmeganshenme。

 nikeyijilao，jiarulingyifangshiaizhenide，wulunzainazhongchujing，tadouburongyirengxiani。shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？

2、缄默，和无节制的冷暴力

 wulunshizaitanlianaideqingkuangxia，huanshizaihunyinshenghuodangzhong，zhengchaozhendeshiyijianzaiyiqiezhengchangdanshideshier，liangrenzaiyiqi，zongyaolijingjiaozhangyiduanshijiandemohe，zaizheigemoheli，ruhechaoquanshibusuanguode。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？enaidefufu，tamenziyouyitaojiejuefenqidefangfa，feichangdeqingkuangxia，tamenyidingburongyihelingyifanglengbaoli。

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？shijishanglengbaolizhendeshizuishangfuqiguanxideyijianshiqingle，younaxiebumanyi，younaxiefenqi，chaowanhouzuoxialaipingxinjingqidegoutongjiaoliu，caikeyijiejuekunnan，yidangangkaishilengbaoli，fuqiguanxiyejiangyaolaidaobengkuidebianyuan。

3、把另一方以前做的蠢事翻来翻去的说

 fuqijian，zhengchaozuibihuidebianshitiguoqule。suoyourenchangyouwangri，suoyourenchangyoufancuoshierdeqingkuangxia，danworenweiyaoshiganyujiuzheng，jiumeishenmebuchude。zhenshienaidefufu，tamenzhengchaodeqingkuangxiacongbutiguoqu，yiwangdeshierjiuyaotayiwang，yagenjiumeiyoutidaodebixu，yaolejie，dangniyizhiwangbudiaowangshi，youzenmekenengqugangkaishigenghaodeshenghuoni。yinci，zhengchaodeqingkuangxia，qiewutiguoqu。

4、欲望之中讲出离异得话

 jianxinruguoniyongxindekandaiyiduanqinggan，jiuburongyihenyuwangdejiangchutichufenshouhuoshiliyineiyangdehua，youyunidongdedeaixi。yaolejie，rendaoshengnudeqingkuangxia，feichangrongyijiujiangchuyuwangdehualai，daozhibunengwanliudejieguo。

 zheixiexiangaidefufu，tamenwulunchaodeyouduomededeqiangda，douburongyisuibiandejiangchuliyineiyangdeguanjianzi，youyutamenyizhihenjinshen，yehenzaiyilingyifangdetihui，jishiqueshichengbuxiaqule，lihunle，yeshilijingzhangqijinshendekaolvdaode。

5、把两人的分歧，告上别人眼前

 fuqijiandefenqi，yingdangguanqimenlaizishenchuli，wulunchaodeyouduomededeqiangda，yeshibubiqianshedaobieren。zhenshienaidefufu，wulunsixiachaodeyouduomededeqiangda，zaibierendeyanqian，yehuihaijidejilingyifangliuyouchongzudeqingmian。fenqidouhuichuli，zhengchaodouhuiyiwang，yishizhuxinghuanshiyaozaicide，jiaruliangrenyizhengchao，jiunongdezhongrenjiezhi，zaibierenyanqian，chizelingyifangdequexian，badiquzhizedeyiwushichu，neijiexiaqudeshenghuohaizenmekenengguodexialai。

 lengzhanshishenmeyisi？fuqijianyaoxiangzhangqidexiangai，jiuxuyaobaliangrendefenqi，guanzaifangjianmenlibianneiyangcaihuiranglingyifangyoudanliangzaicihenizaiyiqi。