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dajiayaoyouyigehepingfenshoudedaodejieguo,yougongyingdegongtongdemubiaozai,xieyishuchenggonggailvjiuhuidadeduo,neiyangyeyouzhuyuzaiweilaideshenghuozhong,nenggouyoushanxiangchu,zhongjiuyoufumu,jishimeilefuqiguanxi,qinzigoutonghaishicunzaide。
1、把握住另一方困扰,替他考虑到,做到双赢

dangnizhenzhengwanquanlejiedaotamenderuodianshi,dajiacaikenengzhaozhenenggoudadonglingyifangdezheiyizhiluotuo,jinerzhidinggengjiahaodejihuafanganlai。
youyigezimeinanshengyongxinwaiyu,xianglihun,zimeixuyaodeneiyitaodahuxing,neiyangzimeishizheimeshuode:“deneiyitaodahuxingnikankannengbunengliujiwo,fumunianjidale,bingqieyoufumu,woxiangrangtakezhudeshufuyixie,duiyujiazhongchezi,wobie,liujiba,nipingchangmaimaimang,tankehuyoucheyoufangbianyixie,xiaowuziyeliuji,niyihoubunengmeidifangzhu,niyeshihaizidefuqin,wulunwomenzhihouruhe,wohaixiwangniguodehao。”
kezhenxiangshi,deneiyitaodahuxingyibaisishiduopingfangmi,diqushizuihaode,xiaowuzibudanbuweiyoudianpian,zongmianjiyejiuzhiyoubashipingshangxia,wulunzenyangsuan,quanshinvxingtanbianyi,kezimeizheiyangshuo,bianjilingyifangdeganjuejiushitafeichangtitakaolv,zuizhongdejiejuyeyuangaoyujiemeideyiliao,bujindahuxing,xiaowuziliujilezheiyizimei,jiazhongjuedaduoshudechuxuyeshijizheiyizimei,zhiliuxialecheliang,talaogongshizheimeshuode:“tingnide,cheliangwoliu,danshifangzihechuxudouliujiba,wojiuyuanniyihounengguodehaoyixie,wulunduojiu,niyuxiaohaiyongyuanshiwodejiaren。”
kan,zheiyilaogongbujinlihunjingshenchuhu,erqielianggerenlianxidehuanjieyekeyigengyouzhuyuhaizichengzhang。xiangxinhenduobeichuguidemeizhizailihuntanpanshi,fennuqingxuzhanjuzherendedanao,henbunenglingyifangsdexindouyou,limajiuyaoqiutamenlihunjingshenchuhu,zheiyidianzailingyifangkanqilai,yagenjiumeiyoujitaliushenglu,nizaitayanlijiushituotuodeyigeduishou,neiyangtazenmekenenglaolaoshishiranglijini。
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2、明确方向,坚定不移的向着目标履行
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yinciwomenyidingyaoquelihaozijidemubiaojiujingshishenme,liuyizheiermubiao,jiarushiduanqimubiao,jiuhenrongyiyinqifenqi,yinci,yidanyouchongtule,yegaibazhuyililadezhangjiuyixie。

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neimewomenjiuyaobazhuyililadezhangjiuyixie,dajiadezuizhongmubiao,jiushixiwanggankuaibaituorujinzaogaodehunyin,kaiqixindeshenghuo。
taxiangfenfangzi,ertamenxiangyaofangwu,zhiyaowomenganjuefangshipeifu。
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neiyangzaihenanshengtanpanshi,fangkuandeqiefenshang,jiubuyidingyizhaotajianyide1/2laila,keyinachushihezijipeichangfangan,bazheiyibililveweitishengdian。
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