老公出轨怎么办：发现老公对自己不忠怎么办

zhangfuchuguigaizenmeban?xianrujin，zuishixingdetimuhaoxiangjiushizhichuguixingweigerenxingwei。jinguanfeichangrongyijiangyiwuguiyinyulishiyoujiudeyuanxiong(“qiangjingde”nanshengmeifahuijuejiyu;“lveduoxingde”nvshijinjindenghoutuji)，laogongchuguizenmeban?faxianlaogongduizijibuzhongzenmeban?

一、老公出轨怎么办：发现老公对自己不忠怎么办

laogongchuguizenmeban?faxianlaogongduizijibuzhongzenmeban?keguanshishishi，buzhongshifeichangshaoshiyigeheibaihuinanti。

shubuzhi，genjuzaigengduofangmianshangchayan“weihe”，ninjianghuikeyizaichangchangbeihushideguanlianzhongbiaomingzheixiehui**yu，binggaijinninzaiciquanguochengzhongdeguanlian。ruguonichajuexiangyaozhidaoweiheshierqueshichanshengshi，bixukaolvdaozheijijianshier。

1.赏析，而并不是冷淡

shici“zhizhishenwangwomenyiqifenli”bingbuyiweizhezaishangxinidezhixiqinshushideyiwangxing。zheileizimanqingxuhuilingrenjuedelengdan，jianjiandijiangnidezhaijuanshizuolisuoyingdang - erqiebeichengzuolisuoyingdangtongchangzaochengzaibiedediquxunzhaoshiyongjiazhi。

liangzhifuqinenggouzuodezuiconghuideshierjiushishuolejiedaotamendeguanliannenggousuishisuidiwanbi。neihuazheileijianjiesuzaolezheizhongjijizhudongdexintaiganxie，zheizhongjiqishenxinjiankangweijigan，xiangrenmensuozuiaiderenzhanxianrenmenguanzhudeshuiping。yibianxiezhugenggainidejianjie，meirizaochenbixuziwen：“weishagaoduzhongshiwodezhixiqinshu，jinriwokeyizuoxienaxielaixiangtazhanxian?”

tanenggouxiangshumianfengchengxiangtongjianyi，1fengjianjieminglededianziyouxiangtahuilejietazainideniantouzhong，huojinjinyibiandajia2gedejixingbiaoyanwanfanyouhui。jiaruninjuedebeixiaokan，qingrangnindelaogongyeneiyangzuo。jiarubuyinmouleixiaodefangfahuxiangshengchengzishendeshiyongjiazhi，jiububiqumeitian，kanyixiajieguozenyang。

2.它始终不仅是有关性別

xinwenmeitibananshengmiaohuichengtamenxingyuwangdenupu，dandabufenshierdoulaiyuanyunanshengduiganqingqinmiwujiandeqipan，erbingbushirentidejuede。huanjuhuashuo，zheiliangrenyougequweidelianjie。“yixienanshizaixingshenghuocengmianmeiyouchanshengkegumingxindeganqinglianluo，”xingbieyanjiuzheeddderonald levantshuo。

“yinciyigerenhehunyinguanxideweiyilianluojianghuiyirancunyou。” zheijiushishuoweihedangnanshengqipandaliangdehunyinguanxishi，tamenjianghuihuizhuanwei**yibaochizheileiqipan。nizennengjiangyigedanxinzhenshihunyinguanxidenanshengbianweiyigexunzhaozhenshihunyinguanxideren?zheitingqilaifeichangjiandan，danshizhejinxingxingshenghuo。yunanshengqinmiwujianqinmiwujiannenggouzaiganqingshangkaiqita。

3.有个通情达理的耳朵里面

jinguannijianghuixiguanyunishidenvyoujiangchuyiqieniantou，dannanshengjianghuihuijuedegengweimingan，gongxiangkegumingxindebenrenniantouhetihui。nvshinenggousuzaoxuexipeixunnanshiqichangdeshehuixuejiaandelu·aierwen·similechengzuo“youyi”。hunyinguanxizhongnanxingtezhengdejiyinbianyi，nanrennvrenshuangxinglianxiangnanshengquebao，jiarutaqingxubuwending，tadenanshiqichangburongyizaoshouweihai。

laogongchuguizenmeban?faxianlaogongduizijibuzhongzenmeban?dangniganjuenideairenyuanyiduiwaikaifang，dandanyoutajianghuihuiyouyuyouzheizhongzhongleidetihuierbeifenbian，neimashizhexiaofangnanshi，biaomingniyaotingtameiyouchengjian。suihou，queshineiyangzuo，buguandafuhuochushitiyishizaitaiyouhuo。fanguolai，qinglejieshihounanti。nijianghuihuiduijieguodeqinmiwujianjuedechayi。

4.友情要素

zaizheizhongcengmian，nanshidelingwaiguanliannenggoujiangdichuguixingweideyinyou，zheijiushishuonanshideyouqing。“renmenburongyihenanhaiertaolunrenjijiaowang，yincidajiaduizheizhongguanliandeyingyucihuiliangjiaoxiao，”irwin-smilershuo。dantamendequejiangtongzheizhongyuyan。

nvshinenggougenjushiyonglaogongyubierendeyouqinglaiweihuzishenderenjijiaowang。tatuozhanledajiaduirichangshenghuoguanjianlianluosuojubeideyingyucihuiliang，bingmibulehunyinguanxidezhenkongbeng，erzheileizhenkongbengjingchangyinbushidudelanmanerhuodepeichang。

5.共同进步(起來)

jinjinyouyunicong20suizuoyoujiuzaoyihelingyifangyiqibingbuyiweizhedajia2gedouhuiyikuaier - huoshiyiyiyangdesulvfazhanqushi。shehuixuejiasylvia  lafairshuo，zaihenduochuguixingweidezhuangkuangxia，fufu“xianghumeiyouxiezhuchengcai”。

yuairenchengshuqideyigejianyifangshishixianghuzhiding(bingbaochi!)zongtimubiao。biru，jiaruniyizhizaixiangtongsuofangwuzhulehenduonianbingqienimeiyilibaitiandouyanfanjiawulaodong，nijiugangkaishitantaobanzhiyigexindediqu - sheiyebuzhidao，tajianghuihuiyouyiyangdejuede。tichangtadexinyuanjiangshitajuedeyibuyiyangdefangfabeijiandao，tashizheizhongchangchangfuwuchengnuodeshier。

6.沒有行为主体应当超过界线

nanshengdeguanjianyinyoushizhiji。zhenshi“huode”taderen。(huoxu，zheijianghuishizheizhonghuanjue，youyuzhenshihuodetaderenjianghuizaijiazhong。)keshikeyitantaozaochenghunyinjiaolvbuandehuatitaolundeduchuangxingshiwufakangjude。

zaidajiadeguanlianzhongfangzhibushoudaoxianzhidezhutifengge - erqiebubidanxingenjumingquetichufanzadenantilaijiaofatamendexuzhangshengshi：niduirenmendefuqishenghuojuedezenyang?dajiazairenmendehunyinzhongniyaobuyuanyouzhenaxie?zheizhongbuhuishoudaojiaolvbuanweihaideguanlianshibutaikenengde，keshizaoyibianchengleiqudehuatitaolundejinzhangjushijianghuishiweihaide。jiangwupinfangruzhuomiandadadeyouliyujinibianchengtadezhiji。