发现老公出轨了该怎么办：发现老公出轨了怎么处理才对

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一、发现老公出轨了该怎么办：发现老公出轨了怎么处理才对

 ninengduinideqinglvxingweixinxibaomima?niyaojinideguanlianchongfenfahui，huoshiwanbitabingzhuiqiuwanmeinibeimengpianderenma?kuanrongruhe - ninaizhinenggouguidingtama?zaikaizhanbiedeshijicaozuoyiqian，qingchaxunxialieguize。tamennenggouxiezhuninfangzhishenxiangengcaogaodezhuangkuang。faxianlaogongchuguilegaizenmeban?faxianlaogongchuguilezenmechulicaidui?

1.Fess Up還是Hush Up?

 jibenshangzaiquanbuzhuangkuangxia，renkenideqinglvxingwei - bulunshiyiwanghuanshirujin - quanshizuiheshi。meiyougongbu，dajialiangrenjiumeiyoufangfajixuqianxing。

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2.处理或完毕它?

 jiarubukaolvdaodajiaguanliandezhuangkuang，huiyingzheiyinantishihenjiannande。nijiehunlema?xiaopengyoumencanjialemeiyou?niyuzheixieyouyansurenzhenqingganderenyouyituima?weimeigejianghuidezhuanbianchushitiyishibutaikenengde，danzheieryouerdianyaojilao：

 ①kaolvdaomeiyishoucijueceweihaiderendetihui。dangnizaoyiyouhuile3geyue，nagerenmingdanshangjianghuiyou2gexingming。zheiyiban huishiguanlijuecebiandeyuelaiyuejiannan。jiaruninzaoyiwanhun10nian，gaimulujianghuibaohanhenduoren deyishizhuxingjianghuihuizaoshounindetiaoxuandeweihai。baozhengnijimeiyiwubichufenjuedingbuliangyingxiangderenkongchushijianheguannian。

 ②dangnitiaoxuanchulizheiyinanti，nibixuzuoxuduoshierlaizhengshi。 yigesheiweibeiguanliandexinlaisheqisuiyihekekaodefeichangzhangdeshijianxuduo。neirenyewubiqinfendedaota。

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3.找到错在哪儿

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4.不必希望宽容

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5.宽容你自身

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 chuguixingweishizheizhongguanlianjianghuizaodaodezuibijiaoyanzhongde“exingshijian”qiyi。shubuzhi，fufuhuoxialaichulai，naizhijiandaotamendeguanlianyinquanyuquanguochengertigao。qingjilao，goutongjiaoliushizhongyao，ruguonideairenxiufushi，nidelianmindoushizhongyao。

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