婚内出轨是否要原谅：婚内发现对方有外遇该怎么办

dangnifajuerenmendezhangfuchuguishi，renmenyibanhuijuedenaonu。weihezaoshousunhaidedouhuishizishenni?jiarutawaiyu，weihenanshengjiunenggoubeikuanrong?chuguinanrendezhuyaobiaoxianyoushenme?jiaruninfajuelingyifangyouhunhou ☞chugui ，qingbubijiqiezuochuzuihoujuece。hunneichuguishifouyaoyuanliang?hunneifaxianduifangyouwaiyugaizenmeban?

一、婚内出轨是否要原谅：婚内发现对方有外遇该怎么办

妥当信息保密和适度宣泄

dangnifajuechuguinanrenshi，renmenyibanhuijuedebiequheyoushang。ninengzainaohaizhongliyiciyouyicidihuiyizheixierangrennankandexinxineirong，qinmiwujiandegerenxingwei。

hunneichuguishifouyaoyuanliang?hunneifaxianduifangyouwaiyugaizenmeban?huiwanglingyifangyiqianchangshuodehuayanqiaoyuhefuwuchengnuo，yiwanghezuorixiangtongpiaoliang，danshijizaoyibenkui。

dangniguodujiaolvbuanshi，renmenbennengfanyingdiqidaixunzhaozheizhongfangfalaixuanxiezishendexintai，yibaochixinlideningjingheqingchujinzhangjiaolv。shijishang，yubierengoutongjiaoliushizheizhongfeichanghaodefaxiefangfa，nenggouhuanjiexinlidetongkuhezaodongbuan。

掌握难题的重要，作出挑 选

jingxiaxinlaihou，nijianghuihuigangkaishisisuo：zheileiguanlianyingdangzainaer?renmennenggougenjuchuguinanrendezhuyaobiaoxianxunzhaoliangrendeqinggandezhongyao。renmenmeifazuochugenbenxingdejuece。

hunneichuguishifouyaoyuanliang?hunneifaxianduifangyouwaiyugaizenmeban?zhongjiu，meiciganqingganshoudouzhiyoukegumingxinganshoudao。ninenghaohaodikanyixiazheiyineishihouliangrenfashengshenmeshinanti，youmuyoujianghuichulitamen。

听取意见老年人和盆友的建议

penyouhelaorenjianghuigengzhangworenmendezhuangkuangbingzhangworenmendegexingtedian。tamendeyijianfankuinenggouxiezhurenmenjinkuairenshiziji。shidudizixunzheixiezhangwoxingbieguanlianhuozhangwonideren，bingtingquyijiantamendeniantou。takeyixiezhuninkeguanxingdilejienantibingzuochugengqiangdeguanlijuece。

不放弃自身

jinguanairendewaiyuhuijiniduizheileiguanlianjuedeshiluo，danzheijinjinrichangshenghuodeganshou，bingbuyiweizhetayizhihuixiangneiyang。zaijianglaideshiguangli，ninengyoudaliangdeshijianyuzishenjiaowang，ninengzaicitishengziji，gengshandaiziji。bubiyouyuganqingwaishangerduiquanqiushiluo。jianxinshihederenyijingzouxianghuihuangdelumianshang。

hunneichuguishifouyaoyuanliang?hunneifaxianduifangyouwaiyugaizenmeban?ganqingdemeigehuanjie，congxunzhaodeyoubancedaogezhonggeyangxintainanti。zenyangweichiqinmiwujianqinggan?zenyangjiejuedajiaguanlianzhongdegezhonggeyangnanti?yuanyizaiaizhonghaiji，zheizhongkechengneirongnenggouxiezhunitishengnideganqingpinzhiheqingshangzhishang。