男人出轨了要不要离婚：男人出轨了该不该原谅

 zhongyouyitian，nibujingyizhongfajuenidechuguilaogongle，danzuichunibuganxiangxin，youyunijuedenidelaogongbudakenengduinineimezuo。keshiruguoniyongzishendeshuangyanjiandaotashi，yixiaxiarutonggepiaopodayuqishixiongxiongdedahuilai，nanren ☞chugui leyaobuyaolihun?nanrenchuguilegaibugaiyuanliang?

一、男人出轨了要不要离婚：男人出轨了该不该原谅

nanrenchuguileyaobuyaolihun?nanrenchuguilegaibugaiyuanliang?chuguinanrenle，yulaiyuguangfanle。tashishiji，bubihuiyan。

 henduonvshizaihunyinjiatingzhongshiyanshifenhenruonaizhidijianderenwujiaose。tamenmeiyoudandudeguannianhegongzuonengli。tamencongmeizaihunyinpolieqiantihuidaoweiji，yinerweijizhenshilailinshitamenjiangyuelaiyuenanyirenshou，tamennaizhihuiyuelaiyueqianchuangbaikong，yipengjiusui。

1.尽可能维持理智，分辨方式

 nimeifabaochijueduideningjing。yinweiyigerenshizhongyuzishenrushui，jieguojingranyubierenyouguanlian，erqiehaiyanzangdezheibankegumingxinhezhangqi，xiangzhezheileijuedeshishizaitaideexinxiangtu、naonu，yincijingjingdezuozheijianshiqingxianeryijianbushishijide。

 danbuningjingbingbuyiweizheninengfahuo，suihouxiangquanqiuxuanbutadexieegerenxingwei。congmingnvrenyingdanggaoqingchu，naopiqihexunzhaolianminbingbukeyijiejuekunnan。tazongshibatatuidaodisanzheerdewenrouxianglibian，yidedaodisanzheerdekuanweihetiexin，neiyangtacaihuiyuelaiyueyuan。

 yiner，jibianninfajuelingyifangwaiyu，yebubizaishiduofenzhongneibianchenghanfu。fanguolai，jinkenenglejiedangjindezhuangkuang。chuguilaogongduozhangshijianle?younaxieshijiyiyi?biciyounaxieguanlian?zhinengzhangwozhuangkuang，renmennenggouweixiayijieduanchongfenzhunbei。

2.思考自身能否接纳

 nanrenchuguileyaobuyaolihun?nanrenchuguilegaibugaiyuanliang?laogongdewaiyushitazishendenantima?ninengchucixiangqi：nandaoshuobingbushima?tawaiyunandaoshuohuanshiwodewentima?shijishang，lizhisisuo，renmenjingchangdayingdehunyinshizheizhong“0.5 + 0.5=1”fangshi，yinciquanbudeshierdoubukeyijianyixianxiatuiguangdaotashoushang。

 shijishang，nanshengdewaiyutingdashuipingshangyouyumuqiandehunhoushenghuozhangshijianjuyoumaodun。huanjuhuashuo，pingshihudongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliuhaowuyiwencunzaidewenti，zheiyinantihuoxushishuangzhongde。yinerjianghuibixuyixiefanshemian。

suihoukaolvdaoyigenanti：nikeyijienama?

 zheiyinantigengweijiannanheruili，danbuguanzenyangdoubukeyifangzhi，renmenwubiyingdui。jianghuiyoubijiaofuzadeyaosu，baohanxiaohai，babamama，jiazhong，jingjifazhan，zichan，xinyudeng，bingxixinhengliangtamen。dangnibukeyijienata，huoxu，nizhibixutiaoxuanliyijiujiuxingle。

3.挽回婚姻

 nanrenchuguileyaobuyaolihun?nanrenchuguilegaibugaiyuanliang?daliangnvshihuitiaoxuankuanronglaogongdechugui。huoxu，zheijinjinqianbodekuanrong。shijishang，waiyudailainvrendexintaibahennanyigenchu。huoxutamenzhongjiuburongyiwangdiaozheijianshiqing，dantamenbuxiangyaozaiduo。

 danjirantiaoxuanzaiciguo，nijiupobudeyiyingduidisanzheer，yingduinanyirenshoudehunyin，zheibixutingdadedanlianghexinxin。hunyinheganqingbingbushiqianxun，qianxunhebeiweidaochenaili，hunyinchuxiannantiyihou，yebingbushizhaohaoduogehaoguimisuiyiqingtu，jiunenggenggai。congshizhishangjiang，bixuxuanyongkexueyanjiudefangshi 。shuochuanle，tashiyigegenjunanrenxintaipouxidekexueyanjiulicheng。