老公出轨了怎么办？妥善处理方法是什么

chuguinanren dexintaizaixiangshenme?zhangfuchugui zheijianshiqingzairujinderendeyanzhong，zaoyibingbushizheijianhenxinqideshierle，danbuhuigaibiandeshi，zhangfuchuguiyihou，nvxingrengranhuizaoshoutingdadesunhai，ruhejiejuezhangfuchuguizheijianshiqing，rengranshixuduonvxingbixuyingduidenandian。neima，fajuechuguinanrenhoudetuoshanchulifangfashishenme?xiabian，jiuhetongaixiaobianwomenyiqilairenshiyixiaba。

1、不必现场和平分手。

ruguonilejiezishendezhangfuchuguiyihou，shibushinihenfahuo，shibushiniyuanyichongguolingyifangdeyanqian，baquanbudezhijiezhengjushuaizailingyifangdeyanqian，jinidezhangfurangni1gebiaoshu。chuguinanrendexintaizaixiangshenme?jianghuiniyaohuidihuinidezhangfu，yongniquanbunengxiangqidehendudehualaipipanta，tanbaitafanleshizaitaibijiaoyanzhongdebuzhengque。

neiyangzuohuijinidexintaihuodefaxie，jinizishenganjuehaoguoyidianer，keshinizhenshiyuanyibiaoshudeshishenme?niyuanyizuodeshitahuilejiedaozishendebuzhengque，suihoulikejiuzheng，lijidehuiguotou。yexuxianchanggennanpengyouhepingfenshoudehua，jiumeibanfabiaoshuchuzishenzhenshideniantoule。

2、分析这些情感。

yiqiejianyishierdechansheng，quanshiyouyuangude，jishishizhangfuchuguidoushixiangtongde。yincinikeyijinkenengrangzishenlizhi，quzhangwonidezhangfuzenmehuiwaiyu，pouxidajiazhongjiandeqingganchuxianleruhedenanticaizaochengleneiyangdejieguo。laogongchuguilezenmeban?zheiyangyilai，nicaigenglejieyaozenyangcainengchulidajiazhongjiandenanti，suihouyuanmandewanliuta。

huoxu，zaizheiyiquanguochengzhizhong，nishiyaoyunidezhangfugoutongjiaoliu，bubizijizhuguanyiduanderenwei，nisuojuededejiushishuojueduiqiadangde。

3、清晰的表述自身的念头。

youxuduodenansheng，zuibianshuozheyuanyizhongguijiazhong，keshiyoushuozishenbixushijianhedisanzheduanjuelaiwang，yinciyouguoduanshijian，nanshengjiuhuizaidisanzhehelaopozhongjianchiyi。erzheiyineishihou，nihaiyaotizaoyunidezhangfushuoqingxi，bubijinidezhangfuzainiyudisanzhezhongjianchiyi，erdangnibuxunidezhangfutihuidaogongzuoyalidehua，neimenijiumeibanfazhenshidewanhuilaogongle。

youyudisanzhezishizhizhongcunyou。yinci，xiangnidezhangfuqingxidebiaoshuzishendeniantou，tahuijinzaozuochutiaoxuan，neiyangduinieryanshishide。laogongchuguilezenmeban?

fajuezhangfuchuguiyihou，ninenghentongchu，henyayigan，henbushufu，keshizuihou，nibixuxuehaozhanliqilai，haohaodidechulidajiazhongjiandenanti，neiyangnicaiyoujianghui