婚姻出现危机怎么克服：正确解决婚姻问题该怎么做

 changshichulihunlianwentijianghuishiyigeyanjundequanguocheng，ninaizhijianghuibuqingchucongnaergangkaishi。meicihunyinquanshiyuzhongbutongde，hunyinchuxianweijizenmekefu?ruhenenganranduguo☞ hunyin weiji?zhengquejiejuehunyinwentigaizenmezuo?

一、婚姻出现危机怎么克服：正确解决婚姻问题该怎么做

1.列举您的差别和矛盾

 hunyinkangzhengbingbushiyizhiyudashijianxiangguan，liruwubihuomengliezhengzhi。jiaruniyongyuanbuzhidaoshishazulanleni，woyebukeyiqianxing，yinciqingchengxindikanyixianideguanxinanti。

 hunyinchuxianweijizenmekefu?ruhenenganranduguohunyinweiji?shizheshijierbingbushilieju“renmenbujiaowang”zheizhongshiqing。wenyiwenzishen(yunidezhixiqinshutantao)youmudexingdenanti，biru：

niyunidezhixiqinshufenlilemeiyou?jinijianglaidezongtimubiao，xinyuanhuoqiyeyuanjingma?

ninderentiheganqingyaoqiushibushihuodekaolv?niairendeyaoqiuruhe?

 niliuyidaoqianquegoutongjiaoliuma?ruguonishuolingyifangzenmeshuohuashi，niyunidezhixiqinshuhuitingma?nindegoutongjiaoliujinxianxiangguanbixupindejianjieminglehuihuama?

ninshibushiyijingjiejueyalitaidadeyishizhuxingexingshijian，birugongzuoshangdenanti，jinqianwenti，bingzhenghuojiarendeshenwang?

2.找到造成重特大婚恋问题的难题

 jiarunindemaodunjizhonghuazaiyigezhongtedaweiguicaozuo，biruchuguixingwei，ninyiranbixuzhaoxunqianzaixingdenanti。zhaodaobingchulizheizhongnanti，huoshininhenindezhixiqinshuweilaijianghuihuishenxiantongyangdefumianxinxifangshi。

 jiadingnimengpianlenidezhixiqinshu。chukaifujianxinlai，niyunidezhixiqinshuwubiyingduizaochengchuguixingweideyaosu。huoxuniganjuenidezhixiqinshumeiyouzhaoliaonidebixu，huoshiniduinideguanxijuedeyanfan。

 zhengquejiejuehunyinwentigaizenmezuo?qingjilao，zeguaibingbushihengaoxiaolv。erbingbushishuo，“woyouyuniyizhizaiganqingshangherentishangyemeiyouwubi，”shuo，“wosuozuodeshicuode，wohouhuimojile。woxiangyaozaicidedaodajiadexinlaibingxunzhaochulirenmenjiannandefangfa。

3.找寻排忧解难的潜在性解决方法

 zhengquejiejuehunyinwentigaizenmezuo?gaoqingchuniyunidezhixiqinshunenggouzuoxienaxielaichulinifajuedenanti。ninnenggoucaiyongshenmeshijigenggailaigaijinnindezhuangkuang?qingjilao，hezuofangbixuqinfenchuliguanxizhongdejiannan。

 shizhezaizhangzhidezhengzhongjianhuayipai。bujin，liejuninnenggoujiejuedeshier，yucitongshi，liejunindezhixiqinshunenggouzuodeshier。niyunidezhixiqinshunenggouzhizuomingxi，suihouhuxiangjiaowei。

 biru，ninjianghuixiedao，ninbixuyuelaiyueshaoguanxingongzuozhong，zhongzhigoumainindeairen，erqiegengweipapa。huoxuniqidainideairenweibaochinidejiazhongheyangyuxiaohaizuochudaliangfengxian。

4.着眼于处理您的个人缺点

 zaitantaoqianzaixingjiejuefangfamulushi，qingweichiquanjuxing。zhiliyuzenyangweijiejuefangfazuochugongxian，erbingbushizhuzhongzhixiqinshuyingdangzuochudegenggai。yiyang，nidezhixiqinshuyingdangzhiliyutamennengganshenme。

 shizheshuo：“wojuederenmennenggouzuochumouxiegenggai。womenbixunuliqinfen，wobuhuiqidainiganjuewojinjinrangnizheifennibixuzuodeshiermingxi。womenyiqizhiliyurenmensuoyourendedongneng，erbingbushixianghuguidingdewupin。”

5.得到婚姻咨询顾问的协助

 fudaoyuannenggouchushikeguanxingdejiaodu，xiezhuninsuzaoxiubuguanxichabiexuyaodezhuanyejineng。jiandaogaoxiaofudaoyuanhuokangfushi，buyaojiaolvbuanhuoziworentong。congzhuanyerenyuanneibiandedaoxiezhumeiyoucuo。

 hunyinchuxianweijizenmekefu?ruhenenganranduguohunyinweiji?jiaruninjiejuechuguixingwei，shangyinhuomiaoshidengnanti，xunzhaozixunyouqicongming。miaoshijiushizhihezuohuobanbiaoshuyanfan，ningxiao，quxiao，huochangshiwurulingyifangdouzhixiaochen，biru“niyeshiyigeshibaideren”，“meishenmebutaidui”，huoshi“nizhongjiubuzuhao”。