花镇婚姻诊所：婚姻七年之痒如何克服

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一、花镇婚姻诊所：婚姻七年之痒如何克服

1.解决失灵的关系模式

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2.为相互空出時间

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3.持续保持自身的真实身份

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4.维持沟通交流方式通畅

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5.依据必须复建朋友关系

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6.表述您的要求

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7.挑选开心而并不是你必须做对

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