婚姻的孤独让我失去自我，如今离婚了，我都能怎样挽回婚姻?

怎样 挽回婚姻感情 ?七年之痒，你信吗?我信。我的婚姻七年，现如今来到短板，我每日都会心烦意乱。人们那麼了解，共处一室七年，现如今没话好谈，两人待在一起，难堪的氛围，令人室息。

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 suiyishenyihou，wofeichangqingqingsongsong，wolianluodaolezheyu，wenqi，renmenheshinenggouwanhun。huodedetahuiyingqueshi：“bu，womamaburongyiyunxuwoquyigejielehundenvren。renmenzhitanqingbushuoai，nandaoshuobutaihaoma?

 zaiyihou，wolianluobulezheyu，dianhuashizhongshimeiyourenjieru，wozhaoletayigeyue，zuihouzairenmenxiangyudeyedianzhong，jiandaohewoyigenianqingdenvshengbaozaiyiqi……neiyike，wojiugaoqingchu，shuobailexiai，jinjinzishenyixiangqingyuandehaogandubale。

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老师回应：

 ren，tongchangshineiyang，shiqucaimingbaiaixi。ruguonishiwujuwushudenvren，nichongjingxiaideshenghuo，huaxuewuzhiduinilaijiang，jinjinshenwaiwu。laogongmeikongqingxidajiadeqinggan，niyayigan。meihuahaotandehunyinshikongbude。nvrenduiganqingcengmianhenbijiaomingan，niguanxinnilaogongdeyiqie，taqueduinizhiruowangwen，nenggoukaolvdejiushinihuaxuewuzhishangdeyaoqiu。

 hunyinbixuyunying，tashiburongzhiyide。dajiahunyinqinian，zishenjiujindaolepibeiqi，erta，jinjinmangliugongzuozhong，hushidajiadehunyinnanti，niouqi，yongwaiyuxuanxie，jieguobunengziba。hunwailiandeshanghai，xianeryijian。yigenvren，weizijidelaogongdailvmao，duinanrendezunyaneryan，shiyigejidadetiaozhan。

 muqian，nijizhicuo，dankuanrongyigeren，yebixudanliang，zaicichuangjianxinlai，bixushijian。lizhiyixia，sikaoyixiahunyindenantigenbenyuanyin，biciyichengxiangdaigongbutanyitan，caozonghaoxianghudexintai，buxuzishenliuquehan。zhuxingfukuaile。hunyinweijixintaizixunzenmeyang?