婚姻危机心态咨询：丈夫心穷的婚姻也要坚持下去吗?

怎样 挽回婚姻感情 ?刚跟男朋友处对象，他标准不太好，我觉得没事儿，人们有情感，要是相互之间激励，人们之后的时日不容易伤心的。恋情两年，我们结婚了。虽然爸爸妈妈一百个不想要，可女大不中留，她们也不太好管我。

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