婚姻咨询：懂得怎样用沟通挽救爱情的方式

免费 效果怎么样?常常会有学生跟我说那样的难题：教师，分手以后想挽救男友究竟该如何和男友开展沟通，才以至于他会感觉我很烦。

 zhenduizheiyinanti，shijishangmeiyoufeichanggudingbudongdegongshijisuan。danzaigennanyougoutongshiyaozunzhaoyixiebiaozhun，fangzhengxintaizhuangtai，caikeyigennanyoukaizhangengweihelidegoutong，rangdajiaxianghuguanxihuodehuanjie。wanhuilaogong/qiannanyou，dongdeyonggoutongwanjiuaiqingdefangshi 。

认可自身的不够

 nanrennvrenfenshoushi，dabufenhuiyouyuyuwangdachaoyijia，xianghuzhijianchizelingyifangdebugou。danshijishangmeigerenlejie，liangrenfenshou，yibanzhuangkuangxiashibicizailianqingquanguochengzhongcunyouyixienanti。laogongjianjueyaolihunruhewanjiuhunyin?hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?

 yinerzaigennanyougoutongshi，yidingyaocaozongzhuzishenbubiqugenlingyifangfanbonaxie，bubichangshichizelingyifangdebuzhengque，zhibixurenkezishendecunzaidebuzujiuxing。

 rujinshinikeyiwanjiunanyou，yidingyaobaifangzishendebuwei，qianwanbiezaiqushuoninaernaerzuodecuowulezheizhonghuale，neiyangzhiyourangdajiazhongjiandefenqizaiduehua。

不必以猜想的心态状态去给另一方举例论证

 henduonvshengzaifenshouhoudoushihenzhuguanxingdegennanyoushuo：niyidinghaishuoaiwo，gaosuwofenshouyidingshiqitoushangdehua……zheixiezheizhonghua。

 zaiwanjiuquanguochengzhong，dajiadechuaicedoushibuzhudongquxiangyuyouyiyuzishendecengmian，lirupandinglelingyifanggenzishenfenshouyidingyouyuyuwangzheixie。

 rennanmianhuidoushichuaicebiedexintaiguocheng，zheihenyiqiezhengchang，richangshenghuoyoushihouchuaiceyixia，jilingyifangyigeyiwaijingxibingmeiyoubuzhengque，danzheileichuaicezaiwanjiuquanguochengzhongyidingyaozhongzhi。

 youyuchuaicebenlaijiumeiyouguoduodeshishigenju，zheishihousuiyichuaicehuijinizhaobuzhezhenshicunzaidewenti，naizhihuirangnanyouganjuegengweidichu。wanhuilaogong/qiannanyou，dongdeyonggoutongwanjiuaiqingdefangshi 。

要操纵住自身的爆脾气

 manxinhuanxidiquzhaonanyouqiufuhexing，jieguonanyouquelengzheliankandaijiuhaoxiangyigeluren。cikehenduonvshengdoushicaozongbulezishendexintai，yibianzishendeqingmiangennanyouzaiduqilemaodun。

 shoulongzishendezihao，jibiandajiazhiqianchuduixiangdeneishihounibeichongshangtian，keshirujindajiazaoyifenshoule，tameiliyouzaiquguanzheni，nineiyangshiyatazongshitahuiganjuexinfan。fanguolai，shoulianxingyixie，zehuizaochengnanyoudeyidianhaogandu。

适度运用男友的同情心

 jiarunishixingqingjiaoweiqianghan，zaiwanjiudeneishihougenlingyifanggoutongshiyaoshidurangzishendeqiporuochulai，ninaizhinenggoushiduzhuangyixiakeling，shuoyixiexiangjin“womingbaibudui，zhihouburongyineiyangle”neiyangdehua。

 nanhaiziduinvshengdoushiyouyizhongtongqinggan，hekuangshizishenyiqianchongguodenvsheng，jibianfenshoule，yeyiranyouqingganzai。wanhuilaogong/qiannanyou，dongdeyonggoutongwanjiuaiqingdefangshi 。

zhuyaobiaoxiandechuchukelianjinguanbunenggouwanjiudajiadeqinggan，danzuishaohuirangdajiadegoutongzaiyizhongjiaoweiyouyideqifenzhongkaizhan。

 shijishang，shidegoutongjihuishizaibicidexintaidoujingxiaxinlaideneishihou。tebieshizaijiushini，yaojijiquwanjiunanyou，jiuyidingyaocaozonghaozishendexintai。

 jinji，bukeyiguodufanzao，caikeyigennanyoukaizhanhelidegoutong，jinyibuxunzhaodajiadenanti，bingyibuyibuqujiejuekunnan。hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?