婚姻咨询：如何处理父母抵制难题挽回婚姻生活

免费 效果怎么样?恋情是两人的事儿，而婚姻生活是2个家中的事儿。“教师，你好。近期有一件十分困惑我的事儿。我与我男朋友从高校就在一起了，大学毕业2年了，纠缠过很数次，可是最终也一直在一起了。

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