婚姻咨询：他待我像保姆，那样的婚姻怎样保持?

免费 效果怎么样?2007年和姐夫(余浩)领结婚证完婚，婚姻十年，我尝到甜酸苦辣。丈夫内向型，不擅于表述感情。我们都是根据亲戚详细介绍了解，我挺苛刻的，第一次看到他，打了心眼中没看中。

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