婚姻咨询：从不是原凉和忍受，怎样挽救如今的婚姻?

免费 效果怎么样?21岁那一年，和姐夫处对象。他大我2届，我大二，他大四。他就是我学哥，很照料我这一初来乍到的同学。他毕业了，我原以为我的爱情就此结束，想不到他寻找工作中后，第一时间联络我，还要我念书的大城市工作中，每一星期都看来我。

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