婚姻咨询：婚姻要懂得创造不一样关系模式的方式

免费 效果怎么样?重新再来，并非简易地把以前的路再走一遍，只是积极创造不一样的关系模式。怎样挽回婚姻生活，懂得创造不一样关系模式的方式 和方法。

第一个层级，是初心不忘

 nishifouhaijidedajiazuikaishixianghuzhijianxiyinzhu，juecezaiyiqideneishihouma?neishihou，dajiazuixiyinzhuxianghudegexingtezhengshisha?congzheier，ninengxunzhaokaizhan“ercixiyin”deguanjianhuanjie。laogongjianjueyaolihunruhewanjiuhunyin?hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?

 nishifouhaijidedajiaguanxizuiqingqingsongsong、tianmeideneishihouma?dajiadehudongjiaoliushiruhede，bicidexintaizhuangtaiyeshiruhede?yiqixiangxiangdejianglaijingkuangyeshinaxie?tashizuitiejinyudajiaxinzhongzhonglixianghuaqingganqingkuangdeneishihou。

 yihouyouchuxianlenaxiewujiehuofenqi，zaochengguanxishengshu、xiaochu?julishuominglaijiang，nanshizhuiqiu“shangtai”，qidailingyifangkeyichongzukaolvtadezilian，ernvshizhuiqiuqinmiwujiangan，xuduoshijinantidezaocheng，douqujueyuguanjianxuqiubuyiyangyinqidemaodun，erbingbushisheiyouyihesheitongguobule。

第二个层级，是接受时下

 jibianshiqinmiwujianairen，doumeiyouzerenkaolvnidexintaizhuangtaixuqiu，yinci，dangnijuedenidewanhuilingyibanyijingyongtongyixingdongtiaozhanzhenidexintaizhuangtaidaodedixian……henquehan，nizhiyuanbushangta。

 shixianengcaiyongdeshitongyixingdong，shimianduixianshi。yaolejie，bupengmiannanyijiejuedenanti，pengmianyebuqizuoyong;jianmozaochengtanpanjiangju，dipinzhidegoutongjiaoliuyiyangyushiwubu。

 yiweiyijingwanhuidenvpengyoudiaokanshuo，zaitabuguyanmian、jijiwanhuideyigeyuezhijin，lingyifangduitashuodeshuzuiduodeliangzijiushuo“e”he“ng”，yidianhudongjiaoliuganyemeiyou，haibibushangchongzhehuiyinbishuohua。

 shijishang，zaiwanhuiqianqi，liangzhezhijianjizheqiuqujieguo，bibushangweizijihelingyifangyigeguoduqi。zuishaoweizijiyidianshijian，laiguanchalingyifangdezhenshixuqiu，caihaoduizhengzhiliao，jingquejihua，tigaowanhuidetongguolv。fouzelingyifangtichufenshouhuowaiyudexintaishiqiuguanzhu，buran，lengbaolicaisuanshidabiaozhun。

这二种状况，特别是在必须拉开距离：

 1.lingyifangxintaidiren、shengshu，huijueyunigoutongjiaoliu。zheiyiweizhetazaoyijiangnishizuoweixie，jianqilequanshendeci。zheishihoujiarutiaoxuanjinji，zongshijifagengmingxiandefangyubennengfanying。

 2.guoduo“bianhuai”ni，juedenantiquanshinidaozhi，chedijini“beiheiguo”。meifachengdanmouleigongzuoyalishi，jiuhuizhaoxunyigexishengpin，duile，tajiuzaizhaotuoci，danzaixintaibolanzhuangkuodeshixia，zhengbianzongshijinizuijiayideng。zhengdezishenhuiyingdejiyu，shizailizhiyihou。

 100ciqianquepinzhidehuihua，yebibushang1ciyongxindegoutongjiaoliu。zhuiqiu“zhi”，yuanbizhuiqiu“liang”genghuadelai。jieshoushixiadezhenzhengqingkuang，suihoudaishierdong。

第三个层级，是清除和复建

tazaoyitaochushengtian，weiheyaozhongfangudi?huiyinghaozheiyinanti，shiwanhuiqudechenggongdezhongyao。

 yaobatalafanhuiguanxizhong，fadiazhuangmengzhuangkelingquanshibuqizuoyongde，tigaoqingshangzhishanghechengshuqingkuangcaisuanshijiejuefangan;yaorangguanxipingwenzhangjiu，bixuxiangchaiwuquyiyang，yidianyidianqingchu、chuliyiwangyiliuxiadenanti，caikeyimairuquanxindekaishi。hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?