婚姻咨询：找准软肋+产生共鸣+有效的沟通=取得成功

1、找准他的软肋

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2、塑造相互个人爱好

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3、提高守候使用价值

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wanhuizhongduimeiyigerensuoyouzhedecailiao，renmaiguanxi，yugu，xingqing，chengshounengli，zizhilichangyouyidingmolian。

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