婚姻咨询：假如老公出轨了，这一剂医治婚外情的药助你

免费 效果怎么样?婚外情，坚信如今的绝大多数人都不容易对这一词生疏吧，随之如今的社会发展见解逐渐对外开放，和婚姻生活的经营不佳，愈来愈多的家中都出現婚外情的状况。

 jinqizongyouyigefangkeyaowoqingtu：mumujiaoshi，wozhangfuwanhunzhijinyizhiquanshiyigehaohaodilaogong，danqianjirihurangaosuwotachugui，wobuyuanyijiushizheiyanglihun，henbuxiaxin。jiarulaogongchuguile，neimazheiyijiyizhihunwaiqingdelingdanmiaoyaoxiwangnengxiezhuni。mianfeihunyinzixunxiaoguozenmeyang?hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?

 hejiefuwanhun13nianle，you2genanhaier，yige12sui，yige5sui。woshiyigejiatingzhufu，congjielehun，chanhouyihou，wodeguanjiangongzuozhongjiushishuosigezi“tongqingdali”。

 zhangfushiyijiapeixunjigoudelaozong，changchangbixugongchu。meiyicigongchuhuijia，tayizhihuirangwomenyixieyiwaijingxi，liruwozhongaideshounabao，tachangchanghuiyiqisuihoumaihuiqu;haiziyaodexiaowanju、gaokejichaopindeng，tayemeijixiaopengyoumenxinhanguo。

 zaiwodeyanzhong，tashiyigechusedelaogong;zaixiaohaiyanzhong，tashiyigechusedefuqin。qianbujiu，tagongchuhuijia，xiangkantafangfoyifuyuyuguahuandemoyang，haikeyiduochaoleliangtiaoliangbancai，peitayiqiyinjiu。tawangzhewo，mingzhiguwen。

 laidaoyeli，2gexiaohaidouzaoyishuile，tahurangenwoshuo，tachuguile。suihoutajiuyiwuyishidibachuguilijingdouhenxiangjindigaozhilewo。neinvrenshiyijiagongsidelaoban，lilehun，daizhuyigexiaohai。tamenzhongjianyouyewuliuchengdelaiwang，xuanbudixiangchuyeshiyinianduodeshijianle。tamenyuehuidedizhijichudouhuiyidi，yincizheilidepengyouheqinpenghaoyouyemeiyoufaxian。

 zhangfuhuranbaneiyangdeshigenwoshuo，yaowoyixiazifanyingbuhuilai。wojiang，banizheileishigenwoshuo，niyaoruhe?tashuo，wobuyuanyimengpianni，yebuyuanduiniyouyidingdemanbao，wojijitanpai，jinjinxiwangjienazheiyikeguanshishi，nikeyijienata。woliangjinjinroushenguanlian，burongyiyoujinyibudefazhanqushi，zheinianxin，wonengduitianfashi，wobuxianggennipaoxianiyuxiaohai。

 woqifeng，wojiang，niyaonengzaihouyanwuchidianma?niyaosanqisiqie，zuoyongyoubao，zaiwozheier，xiangdoubiexiang。zheicitanhuaneirongjiushizheiyangbugaoerbie。xianzaiwobuzhidaozaban?woyebuzhidaotajijigenwoshuotachuguidemudishisha?

 shixianggenwohepingfenshou，suihougongbudigenneinvrenshuangsushuangqi，huanshiyongyouqitanaxiemudi?tajiangwanzheizhonghuayihou，jiufangfogenmeishirenyiyang。huanshimanbuzaihudigongzuo，genxiaopengyoumendouxiaosongliwu。haijijibangwomaiwozhiqianyoushihoutijidepinpaishounabao。

 zheiyaowohenmengbi，wojihuitahuigaosuwoqingxi，tajiujingxiangruhe?tajiuhenlengmodihuiying，wozaoyigentashuoyiguo，wogaihequhecong，huanshizenmewan，youbugennilihun，youyidianbuweihairujinderichangjiatingshenghuo。jiukaigedian，zuoweimeikandaobukeyile。

 wotanbai，wobuxiangrenshouzishendezhangfuchugui，yeburongyigenlingyigenvrengongxiangziyuanyigezhangfu。woxiangtamingquetichulihun，taguoduanbuyunxu，haishuowohaizaimanbujiangli。zaozhineiyang，jiubugaosunile。

 xianzaiwoxinlishifendanxin，shuozhenhua，wowusuoweileguolihun，mingquetichulihunyejinjinzaiheheta，keshi，taneiyangchuwaiyoudisanzhe，haiyiyiguxing，queshiyaowobukeyijiena，wogaizenmezuo?jiarulaogongchuguile，neimazheiyijiyizhihunwaiqingdelingdanmiaoyaoxiwangnengxiezhuni。

回应：

 nixinlidehouzhonghedanxin，wohenlejie。zuixianwojianyideshuodayueshuoyixialingyifangweihechuguileyeyaojijigaosudajia，yijuwohenduoniandejingyanjiaoliu，dabufenyouyuzheijigefangmian：

 1，neijiugan：youyuchuguiyuanbenjiushishuoyijianzuietaotiandeshier，juedaduoshunanshengchuguixintaizhuangtaidoushiduilaopoyouyidingdeneijiugan，jinjinshiduoshaodenantibale，tongchangtajijishuochuqudehua，nengjiangdineixindeyanegan。

 2，tizaokankannidefanying，youliyuxiayibufanganzhutihuodong。zhengshuobaile“shengjidanneibanmidoufuchuchuji”zaowandouhuibeifajuede，bibushanghuajijiweibeidongjineng。

 3，buzhengquedesixiangguannian。shehuifazhandegezhonggeyangwenxuesichaodechongjixingranglingyifangjuedechuguibingfeiyijiannaxiebuduideshier”nikankan，nagedapaimingxingnaxiedebingbushiyeyiyangchuguima“”nagenaxiejiemuzhuchiren，buyezaiwaibianyounvrenma“

 4，yibianrenaoni，jinijijitilihun。neiyanglingyifangjiunenggouwuxuchengshouguoduodeshiluogan，younenghuodezishenyaoxiangde。zheiyijianghuidejilvfeichangshao，zhongjiubingfeimeiyigerendouneimekehen。

 zhangfudechuguizaoyibianchengtieyibandekeguanshishi，nvxingzainanguoyeyaojianqianglumiandui，zaibushufuhaiyaodongdebaituoshengnu、jiaolvqingxu、tongkuzhengdengxiaojiqingxu，zaixinhanhaiyaobaocunyisilixingtishizishen：“weihuxiaohai、weihujiazhong、weihuzishen。”bubirangyuwangshangxianidekeguan。jiarulaogongchuguile，neimazheiyijiyizhihunwaiqingdelingdanmiaoyaoxiwangnengxiezhuni。

是我好多个提议，供参考。

不必一味放任，懂得让另一方在乎自身体会和念头

 jiaruyigerenzhangqixinghushizishendetihuiheniantou，jiudengyuhushizishendecunyouhebixu，zheishijishangdoushizaijiaohuishenpangderenjianjiandihulvewomendecunzaihebixu。xiangpipeidi，tamenjiuhuigengweiyiziwoweizhongxindikaolvtamenzishendeyaoqiu。

 tayaoxianglingyizhongqinggan，tahuibutaigujidisunhaini，lijibianbenjialidegaosudajiawochuguile，nikeyigaizenmeban?huoshilijiquzounidezuanshijiezhi，zhunbeiyulingyigenvhaizaiyiqi。huoxutalejiezheiduininengyousunhai，keshitayehuijuedezheixunsuhuiyiwang。

说明自身的心态，和老公开展刻骨铭心同调

 guanjianshigoutongjiaoliubiciduiguanliandeqidai、haipa、lejie，laijiazhongduixianghudezhangwo。zaizheiyihuanjiezhong，biciyaotaoluncicichugui，tantaochuguilibicideyiwu，jiqizenyangxiubuguanlian。jiarulaogongyizhiquanshiyiranbuzhihuigai。

 neima，zaizheiyangdeshiqingxia，zhiyoujichuzuizhongdesashoujian，“sanshiliujizouweishang”，yinuoruowunaidezishi，yibeibiwunaidebiaoqing，zhenglibeinang，daizhuguinv、haizi，naizhigongpo，beijinglixiang。jiranyouzhedeneishihoubumingbaiaixi，neimajiuyaotamingbaizaisangshideneishihouliuyoudejinjinzhuiyi。

找有工作经验的人帮助

 shuobailepangguanzheqing，pangguanzheqing。hunyinshenghuozishizhizhongshiliangrendeshi，bulunshiyaowanhuihunyin，huanshitiqianzhunbeisheqihunyinshenghuo，zuoweizhengshixuyoudezizun，heduizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuodezhongshi，bixudeneishihounenggouzhaoyougongzuojingyanderenyongxintingtamendetiyi，

 tongchangnenggoubupianbuyidizuochucongmingdepingding，jinerzhaodaohelidejiejuefangan。buranshuyujingerfengbuzhi，zongxuduorenchuizhenbianfeng，xiangwanhuihunyinyezhengjiubule。

搞好多手提前准备

 wulunzenyang，bujinweizijixingfudeqidai，keshihaiyaoweizijiyigezuihuaidezhunbei。jiarushierqueshiwanghuaidefangweifazhanqushi，tayizhizaiwaibianchuguibuxiangyaohuigai，zuizhongmingquetichujueqingdelihun。

 tiyinitongkuaitongyi，dijiaogezhonggeyangyouyizhijiezhengju，jiabeinulixiaohaidecaidingshangdehaizifuyangquan，youyuzhenduiyiziwoweizhongxin，gonglixingxintaiqiang，wuqingwuyidenansheng，baxiaohaijiaodaoqiyangyu，feichangrongyijiangxiaohaidepinxingyedaihuai。

 shijishang，jiaruyoujianghui，renmenxiwangjinrizaikanzheipiandedajia，doushizhongyongbudaozheizhongzhuanyezhishihefangshi。danzheirenshijianconglaibuwenrou，huaidanhecuoshidoushichansheng。tangruonipengdaole，zheijinjinyuzhoukongjianzhongdeyigejilvexingshijian。

 renmenxianggaosudajia：chuguijinjinrenshengdaoluzhongdeyiciqinshenjingli，tahuirangrentongchu，dantabuyidingyiweizheguanliandewanbi，gengburongyiyiweizhenirenshengdaoludewanbi。jijizhudonglumianduichugui，bingjiangtazuoweitigaoguanlianyutishengzijidezhutuiba。hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?