挽救婚姻：让婚外情老公重归，婚姻和感情必须仪式感

老公坚决要离婚 如何挽救婚姻 ?婚姻历经婚外情的身心的洗礼，老公重归家中，以往的一切没法随便抹除。婚外情的完毕，代表着婚姻的新环节刚开始，假如这一那时候沒有一些仪式感，新生活就非常容易一直处于以往的黑影中。让婚外情老公重归，婚姻和感情必须仪式感。

婚姻必须仪式感

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neima，hunwaiqingshibushiyebixuzheibandianlini?

cankaodaanshihaowuyiwende，danglaogongtiaoxuanzhonggui，yexuyebiaodanenggouxuehuifangxiayiwang。

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为以往举行“丧礼”

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那麼她们咋办?

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为新生活举行“再生礼”

 renshihenqiguaidedongwu，yidanshenxianyiwangjiufeichangrongyibunengziba。shubuzhihuibieyiwang，shiyibianrangjianglaigengweixingfu。jirantiaoxuan“anzang”bukanrumudeyiwang，neimadaziranyaorangjianglai“jixinsheng”。)

neima，zenmeyangcainengweixinshenghuojuxingzaishenglini?

還是拿学生慧慧的事例：

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 daobiehunwaiqing，fujianshenghuohehunyin，daziranshiyigeguanjiandeshiri。yinci，huihuidelaogongzaizhengqueyindaozhizhong， tiaoxuanzhongxinqiuai，liangrendoucongxianghudeyanliqueding，shizhenxinshiyideyaoxiangcongtoukaishi。

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