婚姻家庭咨询：婚姻里许多人背叛或外遇，为何提离婚的人傻乎乎

老公坚决要离婚 如何挽救婚姻 ?背叛确实不能忍吗?你别这样做。发觉出轨男人该怎么办?毫无疑问许多人要一哭二闹三吊死，平静下来第一反映毫无疑问会要想去离婚。离婚确实能解决困难，确实能给你心里爽快?

 shishishanglihunbingbukeyichulishijishangnanti，yebinghuirangnichanshengkaixin，jiyoukenengwanmeichengxianletaren。hunyinlixuduorenbeipanhuowaiyu，weihetilihunderenshahuhu。laogongjianjueyaolihunruhewanjiuhunyin?hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?

 bujiuqian，zaiyijiaqingjingdekafeiguanlibian，qingqingsongsongyueerdegequ，dahuoerzaixiangyouzhetianjingdeyingshixiawucha。huranyiduinanrennvrenyinrenzhuyi，nvxingzhanqiyibeikafeipoyiwang，“lihun”。

“nigewuchide。niduideqiwoma?jingranzhaodisanzhe。”

“niyunagehulijingyiwangba。xiaohai，fangwu，chuxuquanbangwo，nijingshenchuhu。”

nanshengshengxiangbudatingbujian，dayueshibuyuanlihunzheileideba。

“butaikeneng”。nvxingliuyouzheisangezi，fenranliqu。

离婚确实能使人开心吗?

shijishang，lihunzhihoudaliangdeshibugan。

yingduihenduoniandelianren，zishenkuxinjingyingdejiazhong，youyubeipan，yishunjiantubengwajie，renmenhuifeichangdebujiangdaoli。

 zubeiquanbubilihunshineiyangde，“weilebaobao;haoxinyouhaobao，nagedisanzheburongyiyoubudeshanzhongde。”neiyangdehua，chedimeiyoupengchurenmendexinlingshenchu，duirenmenmeiyouyidiandianfudu。

duia，renmenlizaishouhairendebuwei，renmennenggouhuodeshehuiyulundeshipei，disanzheshiquyigeyouyidejieguo。

zheishihourenmenchuyuyigexinxintanta，ziwohuaiyi，zishenfouren。zheidoushisuoyourenzaizaodaobeipanshidexintaiyinying。

 zheizhongmengbi，huimeirizainitounaolibiannanyishihuai，lihunzhihou，chukaixinnvyou，yejiuzhiyoudengshijianlaimopingtongkule。hunyinlixuduorenbeipanhuowaiyu，weihetilihunderenshahuhu

bulihunjiunenggengqiangdegoutongjiaoliu?

zheiyijiaofa，xianeryijianshichuanglide。

lihun，duankailedajiadelianluo，zongshijinishenxianzishendefourenzhongbunengziba。

不离婚，你最基本也有和他沟通交流的机遇。

zheiqineibidinghuizhengchao，keshizheileizhengchaodoushigoutongjiaoliudeyizhong，nikeyizhenzhengdetihuidaodajiazhongjiancunzaidebuzu。

 yirifuqi100tianen，yiqishenghuolehenduonianderen，qingganburongyishuomeiyoujiumeile，henduoniandeshenghuorangdajiabianchenglebuyiyangxuexingdejiaren。yinci，zhengshifufudefenlichulai，biranshiguliandaorou。

 hunwailiandechuxian，tingdashuipingshangyouyudajiaganqingdexiaoshi，duishenghuodelingsuishidoushiquxixin，shenghuozhongyulaiyuqinmiwujian，quexianyejiuhuichixudebeibianda。xuduorenhuitiaoxuanzhaoyigerenlaijiejuekunnan、qingtu。hunyinlixuduorenbeipanhuowaiyu，weihetilihunderenshahuhu

 liangrenzaiyiqi，xintaishihuixianghuzhijianweihaide，nigaoxing，tayehuiyuelaiyuegaoxing，yincinibubizongshixianzaizishendeyoushangzhongbunengziba。

dangliangrenganqingtundiao，yingduiwaiyu，bahunlile，nantiqueshiyejiuhuaweiwuyoulemeiyou?xianeryijianshibuyidingde。

bulihun，dajiacaihuiquweidajiadetongkuxunzhaojiejuefangshi。

tiaoxuanlihun，youyudahuoerbuyuanzaixianghuzhijianchaimo，jinjingefeichanghaodetiaoxuan。

keshibingbukeyijiechunidefannao。

人们要懂得与生活和解，与自身和解，与痛楚和解。

 yingduihunyinchugui，nikeyigaoqingchuzishenyaodeshisha。jiarutiaoxuankuanrong，neimenihaiyaoxuehuifangqilingyifangnideguoshi，yuzishenxinlihejie。

renjiuzheiyang，yuefeichangrongyihuodedeyuebuaixi。hunyindoushineiyangde，yuanmandehunyin，liuxiabuquhendadejiyili。

nikeyikuanrong，biaomingnixinlichongzuqiangjing。

nikeyikuanrong，biaomingnigaoqingchuzishenbixunaxie。

nikeyikuanrong，biaomingnidongheshenghuohejie。

 hunwailianrutongnimaixianghunyinqudechenggongdaoshangdeyigemolian，nikeyichengshouzhumolian，jiuliqudechenggongdianfenghenjinle。dongdeyuzishenhejie，huigurenshengdaolu，meiyoutongguobuledekan。hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?