拯救婚姻宽容外遇丈夫的妻子，你现在还好吗?

老公坚决要离婚 如何挽救婚姻 ?遭受丈夫外遇的女人，人们一直不自感觉想去心痛他们，出轨男人最终也要女人来整理烫手山芋，還是要女人来作出妥协，假如是女人外遇，男生会那样看待女人吗?

 worenweihuiyinghaowuyiwenshiburongyi。tiaoxuanwanhuideqizimen，tamenqueshiqueshizuigaibeijingzhong。kuanrongwaiyuzhangfudeqizi，nixianzaihaihaoma?laogongjianjueyaolihunruhewanjiuhunyin?hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?

yingduiwaiyudezhangfuqiziyibanhuiyousangehuanjie：

心态暴发期

 yingduizhangfudewaiyu，nvrenhuiganjuetiantaxialaile，huifeichangdeqinao，huiyaoxianghetazhengchao，huiduitanaopiqi，zuilijidetihuijiushishuoyaoxiangliyi。

gengshenzhejiushishuoqushousidisanzhe，yingduisunhuaitajiazhongderen，taxiangbaozoujieshuxinzhongdeqi。

meiyoukeguandesisuo，xintaizhanlezhudaoxing，neiyangfeichangrongyijiuzuodaobunengwanhuidechengdu。

理智衡量期

 yingduizishenkuxinjingyinghenduoniandejiazhong，renmencaiyongyouxianxiadeshenghuo ，yeweilebaobaonengyouyigexiangxidejia，yincitiaoxuanwanhui。

 zhangfuchuguijinguanwojiushihennanguo，shangxinyujue，tamenbaoqianwo，tamenburongyiyoubudeshanzhong，daizhuneiyangdexintaiquwanhui，jibianshinanxingzhongguilejiazhong，niyeburongyikaixin，duitayeburongyiqueshiyouguishugan。

neiyangdexintaizhuangtaininengganjuezishentainuoruole，dajialianggeyehuanshihuibushangzhiqianle。

 genjuneiyangdezhuangkuang，shuodongbushangzishen，xinlilihuanshiganjuetabaoqianni，biniaibanjiedejuede，zhibuguoshileweilebaobaorennai。neiyangjinguanzhenduixiaohaieryanniyeshijiechudenuli，danshidiaonanlezishen。kuanrongwaiyuzhangfudeqizi，nixianzaihaihaoma?

心态状态升化期

 niwubiyaotiaochulaihengliangdeshejiaoquan，bunengyongtafandecuolaikaolv，nikeyifajuezheizhong，maixiangyigegenggaocengcirencaidebuju。

 jirantiaoxuankuanrong，neihaiyaowangjiyiwangtabaoqiannideyibufen，bubizuoweijiuzhanglaofan，zheishihouzuixiannikeyizhangwodeshidajiazhongjianhunyinshenghuochuxiandenanti，xiangfangfarangdajiafanhuiyuanxianxingyingbulideguanlianzhong。

nenggoukandechuzaiwanhuidequanguochengzhong，buyiyangdetiaoxuan，yejiuhuiyoubuyiyangdejieguo;

henxianeryijian，jiaruhuaizhedikangdexintai，tongchanghuilianghuxiangdou;

jiarutiaoxuanyongganxinghelixingqushensishulv，bibidinghuirangzishenyuelaiyuexiang“yuanfu”;

 jiarunengtiaochulaigudingbudongluojisiwei，yongyigegenggaodebujuquduidainanti，huirangzishenhuodexinlingdejiushu，rangzhihoudeganqingshenghuobiandeyuelaiyuedexingfu。

实际上，挽回并非别人眼里的委屈求全，也并不是说白了的凑合。

 bubizaiyibierenruhekandainidehunyinshenghuo，xuezihehebulaijiao，zhinengzishenlejie。shibushinizaoyinenggoukuayuebiaocengdefangshi，huodegengdadefuwupingtai，youzhegengkuankuodebuju。

 lingwaiyeqidainanshengnenggaoqingchu，qizinengxuanzeyuanliangni，shitazaiyigegaozhiliangdebujushangxuehuifangxiazishendexintai。kuanrongwaiyuzhangfudeqizi，nixianzaihaihaoma?

bingfeiwukenaihezhishi，zhishifangxiazhiniantiaoxuankuanrongni;

bingfeiqianrangchengdan，zhishiyongyiwutiaoxuandanfu;

bingfeiweiquqiuquan，zhishidajuweizhong;

她能学会放下痛苦，并相拥了美好生活。

 tiaoxuanwanhuibingfeibiequzishen，yaobaxintaizhuangtaihebujubianhuayixia，mingbaizishenbixudeshisha，xuehuifangxiayiwangdoushiduizishendeyizhongzunzhong。

 meiyigewanhuideqizi，tamenzuigaixingfudeshenghuo，erqietamenyehuiguoshanghaorizixingfudeshenghuo，youyutamenlejiezishenbixudeshisha。hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?