婚姻家庭咨询 拯救婚姻的方式有哪些？

老公坚决要离婚 如何挽救婚姻 ?在诸多的离婚案中，有的的确是情感已来到完全裂开的程度，非离不能。以便挽救婚姻，许多人试着一种新方法：“试离婚”。也就是说在两人都允许离婚的状况下，不急切从法律法规上执行离婚协议书，仅仅在生活上先“离”一段时间。

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3、积极求和

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4、开诚布公

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