婚姻家庭咨询：怎样去挽回自身的婚姻生活

老公坚决要离婚 如何挽救婚姻 ?许多女人与老公离婚后，都是惦记着如何挽回婚姻，怎样挽回老公，以便给小孩一个家，身心健康的生活还要惦记着去怎样挽回老公的难题。

 mingquetichulihundeyifangyibanhuichangshishuodonglingyifang，jiarulingyifangyunxulihunzhongdebiaozhundehua，fangzhilihunbukaixin。tashiyizhongkongzhijieguodefangfa，henduoren huiyifayangaodang，juedeshitaweichiningjing，jianghuihuiweiruhewanhuihunyinchushigengqiangdejiyu。laogongjianjueyaolihunruhewanjiuhunyin?hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?

 yiqienvxinggennanpengyoulihun，zuizhongxiangzenyangwanhuilaogong，quanshiyaoxiangjixiaohaiyigexiangxidejia，zheiyangdeshiqingxiabingbushiyaoranglihunyuelaiyuegengfeichangrongyi，zhishishidelihunyuelaiyuegengnan，gengnannengkeguiduo。zenyangquwanhuizishendehunyinshenghuo

 ruguonixiangyixiangyaowanhuizheibingbuyi，butaikenengzaiyitianqudechenggong，dangenjuqiadangdeliucheng，nenggoujianlileyizhongziranhuanjing，zuihouwanhuilehunyinshenghuo，erqiezaishihoudeshenghuozhizhongnenggouyiranenai。neiruhewanhuihunyinni?

一、怎样去挽回自身的婚姻生活

1、jienafancuowuderen，erbingbushigerenxingwei

 juebujienatarenfancuowudegerenxingwei，danshizhequlejiehejienafancuowushenhoudeyuangu。zenmehuifancuowu?shibeihulve、bubeizhongshima?shichangchangbugaoxingma?jibiannijuedetashibutaikenengde，haiyaojienanizhixiqinshudejutiqingkuang，naizhijiushinidebuhuigaizaochengnideta/tayouneiyangdejuede。danqishiyiweizheniyeshi“huaidan”，lingyifangshi“shanren”。

2、wanhuilaogong，tiqianzhunbeihaokuanronglingyifang

 changchangjiandaodajiaqinfenruhewanhuihunyin，yidanzhixiqinshubianhua，naonujiuhuinianguochangshiwanhuihunyinshenghuodezhixiqinshu。daocike，tahuotajiubuyuankuanrongle。jigegaojie，jiaruqueshiyaoxiangchulizenyangwanhuilaogong，wubidongdekuanrong。kuanrongbingburongyishisunhaimashangxiaotui，dansunhaijianghuihuiyinweikuanrongerxiaotui。

 yaowanhuihunyinshenghuobixuqiadangdexintaizhuangtai、ziranhuanjing、yuxianjihuahao(naizhizhuanyerenyuandexiezhu：biruzaishizhijinkoujingyingtuandui，libianzongyouxuduojishuzhuanyedewanhuifanganhekechengneirong)。

 yixieliuchengbixulingyifangtingquyijian，bianyuzhangqixingbaochinidehunyinshenghuo。danduanshijian，ruguonidezhixiqinshuhaixiangliqushi，nibixuxunzhaoyigefangshixiyinlingyifang。ruguonidezhixiqinshujuedehuijialezongshibeinizhize，huitoulushibutaikenenghuichanshengde。

 cizhi，yaoxiangzenyangwanhuilaogongxiayiliuchengshiyouguanduicede。zaiyixiecengmian，duicehuibianchengniyingdezhixiqinshudeshashoujian。shubuzhi，niwubijianxinduicehuijianxiao，neiyangnicaihuijianchibuxiezuojiujing，jibiannijuedeyixieshijianghuibuyinggaizuo。jianxinbianhuichansheng。zenyangquwanhuizishendehunyinshenghuo

二、怎样挽回考公的对策

1、不必死缠

 ruguoniaiqiuwenzi、falaosao、sichanlanda、changshikongzhinideairenweichihunyin，ninengshitamenliqudexunsu。jilingyifangxiqideshineikongjian。

 ruguonibuxutamengudu，jiuburongyishilingyifanghaiyoujihuisinianni。nijianghuibixudaotuiyibu，yijianlilingyifanghuijiandaode、juededaodeshineikongjian，bieranglingyifangjuedeta/tajiushinideyiqie。tashixiyinzhurendezhongyaozhisiyi，bingshirenmenjindaodaoxiayibu。

2、rangzishenzairenti、zhishang、ganqing、jingqishenshanggengyouyouhuoli

 rangzishenzairenti、zhishang、ganqing、jingqishenshangchangyouyouhuoli，nineiyangganle，tarenhuijuededaode。bingbushishuowubiyudisanzheshichangjingzheng，jinjinchangshishinizairenshengdaoludeyanchuwutaishangjinliangdeyouyouhuoli。jiaqiangduanlian、duodushuduhaoshu、duojiaoyou。hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?

 zheizhongshierbudanhuishiniyizhizairenti、zhishang、ganqing、jingqishenshanggengyouyouhuoli，bingqietamenhuirangjinishierzuo，chanshengxinpenyou，jinifensanhuajizhongzhuyili，burongyilaodianjizhechanlingyifang。

 shijigaizenyangquzuocaikeyitigaobenrenyouhuoli，zheiyebingbushisanyanliangyunenggoushuoqingdaomingde。zenyangquwanhuizishendehunyinshenghuo

3、要高兴

 wuxujuedehouzhong。ruguonidiluo，nideairenburongyixiangfanhuinizheierde。sheiyexiangbeichixumaiyuan、falaosao、xiaochenderensichanba。niganjuehuibeizheileizhongleiderenxiyinzhuma?bu，zaiyebuhui。ranglingyifangjiandaonigaoxing。

 wodeyisishi，bingbushixiangyaonijiazhuangkaixin。chulaiyunidepenyou(tongyangxingbie)zaiyiqi，quyingyuankanxijupian、guangjie、qutingyinlehui……qishijiushishuoyaogaoxing。jibianlingyifangmeiyoudaochangjiandao，henjianghuishicongtarenzuizhongtingjian。

 lingyifangyouyumoujianshitongdianhuarangni，nimangliugaoxingermeikongshuohua(tashiyijianhaoshier，youyuzheixianglingyifangxianshixinxi，niyongyouzishendeshenghuohequanqiu，wuxuweizhutazhuan)。zuishaoninengshinizishenbianchenggengquwei、gengyouyouhuolideren。

zaizenyangciwanhuilaogongduiceliuchengshang，yaojilaodezuizhongyijianshishi：ruguoniqingxuhaola，nicaihuizuochubiedeqiadangdeshier。

 hunyinshenghuohehaoruchushibuyide，ruguonibaozhengshangbiantijideshier，bingjixuxiaqu，ninengqudechenggongbalingyifanglashanglaibingxieshoubingjianzouxialai。jiejinquanliweichilizhi，neiyangjiunenggouzhiliyunibixuzuodeshiershang，quyingyongzuoyoutijizenyangwanhuilaogongdeduice。