怎样拯救婚姻?这五招最有用!

老公坚决要离婚 如何挽救婚姻 ?两个人在一起交往，在所难免会有跌跌撞撞。婚姻，如同一部设备，零件损伤时，必须持续的修修补补，才可以让婚姻平平淡淡。殊不知，绝大多数的女性也没有寻找恰当的方法修复婚姻，矛盾沒有获得非常好的解决，不断累积，像稳赚一样，越滚越大，两个人也越来越远。

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1、明白拉开距离，水冷却矛盾

 rendaoxintaishilingzhizhong，feichangrongyisangshilizhi。lixingqueshi，chanshengdebuliangyingxiangjiushishuofeichangrongyiyuwanghechanshengzhengzhi。hunyinyuanbenjiuchuxianleweiji，chuyushifenxiongxiandebianyan。

 zheiyangdeshiqingzhizhong，jingbuzhuyiqiedexiazhetengheyanlidaji，jiaruzheileineishihouchanshenglezhengzhi，haowuyiwenzaibenlaideweijizhizhongaihongbianye，lianggerenjiqifeichangrongyimaixiangliyidebianyan。

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2、积极主动沟通，将矛盾摆放在桌面解决

 qingganzhongchuxiannanti，shizaiyiqiezhengchangdanshidezhuangkuang。chuxiannantimeishier，zhaodaoqiadangdejiejuefangfa，nantijiuhuihelidejiejue。goutongshijiejuenantidezhongyaotujing，genjuyouliangdexianghukeyilijidejiejuejiedi。xiangfan，budanggoutong，tongchanghuizaochengmaodunshengji。

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3、在修补感情时，要有标准和底线

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4、不将矛盾扩张，两个人相互解决

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 bujiangmaodunzhangyang，buxubabamama、penyouganyu，gengbusuiyichuwaiwumielingyifangdepinpaixingxiang，yingdangshifufubiciyuedingchengsudeshier。

 qingganmaodunyidanyoudisanfangganyu，huirangqingganwentibiandeyuelaiyuedebubianhefanza。maodun，yaojiejuezailianggerenyinei，bukeyirangdisangerenganyu。tashizhongshilianren，doushirangqinqipengyouzhongshinilianrendefangfa。zenyangzhengjiuhunyin?zheiwuzhaozuiyouyong!

5、退而求其次，做些勤奋来拉进相互间距

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