怎么挽救婚姻：如何识别婚姻危机

xianjieduanwoguode90houlihunyulaiyugao，yixiehunyinshenghuodezaoyizailiyidebianyanshangzhengtuole，keshirenhaimeiguanniandao。jiaruhunyinpoliebaofa，zenmewanjiuhunyin?ruheshibiehunyinweiji?ruhejingying☞ hunyin ？

一、怎么挽救婚姻：如何识别婚姻危机

吃着碗里瞧着锅里的个人行为

在婚姻生活中，你应当留意这些“知己”或“蓝颜知己”， youyuzheizhongrenjianghuijiushinihunyinpoliedebiaoshi。moudapaimingxingzaizishendehunyinpolieyihouzaixinwenmeitishangshuo：lianaifeichangrongyi，hunyinbuyi，qiexingqiezhenxi。

zenmewanjiuhunyin?ruheshibiehunyinweiji?dangniqueshixiangzaijianjiemingledehunyinshenghuozhongganshouxingfukuaile，niwubichenmiyuxinli，jianjiandishangxibingdongdekaixin。

dangnifajuelingyibanyouyigeshuobailedezhijihuoshilanyanzhiji，wanhuilaogonghaiyaolijiyulingyibangoutongjiaoliu，kanyixiadajiazhongjianshibushicunzaidewenti，yincibierenhaiyoujihuizaidajiadehunyinshenghuozhongchengxuerru。

shijishang，hunyinjingyingdefangfashiyizhangjiukanlaizhenshikaolvdaota。youshihouzaizhangfuheqizidexinli“kaiqiyigehuokou”shiyiqiezhengchangde。ninengxianghuzhijianmaiyuannaizhizhengzhi，huogenjubierenbaochihunyinxintaijunhengbukeyijiejuekunnan，fandaohaihuicushihunyinshenghuoaihongbianyeerzaochenghunyinpoliedechuxian。

没完没了地争执

fufubicizaihunyinshenghuozhongyibianzhimalvdou，cunlicunwaideshiqingshinanyibimiande，shubuzhi，dangliangrenyizhitantaoyijianshiershi，liangkouziwubisikao。

wangbiantiyiyizheileifangfawanhuihunyin：fufuwubidongdezaiyiyiquanguochengzhongyingduinantibingjiejuekunnan。jibiantamenzhengchaoneihaiyaochaoyaoyoushijixiaoguo，youpinzhi，renqingzhengchaonantideshizhilaikeguanshangnantiguanjianzhongyao。

逐渐升級的战事

zenmewanjiuhunyin?ruheshibiehunyinweiji?jinguanzhengchaoshiyizhong“diaoweipin”，nenggoubaochizhangfuheqizizaihunyinshenghuozhongdeqinggan，danyebixufencunganqiadangbingbawoshudubingdiandaoweizhi。

fuqijiandejiufenanjianshinanyibimiande，danzaishidezhuangkuangxia，nijiushilunshi，yaogudaju，buguannishizaitaifahuo，nidoubukeyishenggaodaorenshengongjiyoushilizailingyifangdeshijiaoshangdulisikaojianghuihuijinigengweilejielingyifang。

两人在一起的時间越来越低

jinguan“xiaobieshengxinhun”shifuqixiangchufangfazhongshifenguanjiandeyibufen，er“julichanshengmei”doushitishengerzhexinxiangandeguanjianbaowu。shubuzhi，bawoqiadangdejianjuyouyiyubaochizhangfuheqizixianghuguanxi。

zenmewanjiuhunyin?ruheshibiehunyinweiji?yibanlaishuo，danglianrenhuazaiyiqideshijianjiaojiaoshaoshi，huilijizaochenglianrendegoutongjiaoliushijixiaoguoyuecha，zheiduizhangfuheqiziweichizhefuqiguanxishifenbuhao。

小孩子为大而夫妻感情次之

youxiaohaideneishihou，zhonghuachuantongdejiaoxuelinianjiushishuoxiaohaideshierzuiguanjian，yiqiedouyixiaohaiweihexin。zidadushengzinvzhengceshixinghenduonianzhijin，meiyijiazhongduishaonianertongdeguanxingengweihuodeshipei。

zhangfuheqizidouqidaixiaohaihuichenglongchengfengdexintaizhuangtaichedimeiyoucuo，keshi，jiazhongdepingwenwubifangdaodiyiwei，zheiyouyiyuhaizijiaoyu，pingwenhuowanhuihunyin。

chucizhiwai，jinliangbuyaojiangfuqiganqingyuhaizijiaoyuhunweiyitan，zheibuliyingzaoxiaohaiderengeduli，gulihaizideshiminggan。