怎么挽救婚姻危机：离婚边缘如何回头

danggoutongjiaoliuzhibubuqiandeneishihou，neimajiushishuohunyinshenghuozaochengweijideneishihou。tongchu，zaoshoudesunhai，jiqiyiwangdeexingshijianyunidezhizhejianghuishilingyifangjuededajiazhongjianmeibanfafanhuizhiqiandeqingkuang。zenmewanjiuhunyinweiji?lihunbianyuanruhehuitou?ruhejingying☞ hunyin ？

一、怎么挽救婚姻危机：离婚边缘如何回头

1.明智地开展关键的会话

zenmewanjiuhunyinweiji?lihunbianyuanruhehuitou?

dangdajiazhongdeyigerenjicongcong，pijuan，aiehuozoushenshi，bubichangshikaizhanguanjiandehuihua。jiarukanshangquzaiqizhongyigeyaosuyizhiqigongxiao，qingshizhekongchushijiankaizhanqingjingdetanhuaneirong。baozhengdajia2gedoutiqianzhunbeihaokaizhangoutongjiaoliu。

yonghuaixiaoxihuoyigehouzhongdehuatitaolunjinideairencubujifang，shishishangjianghuihuizaochengrentifanying：gongzuoyalixiongxingheermengquangutongdeguoduozaocheng。nideairenhuijuedetianmanjiaolvqingxu，shitahuotameibanfaningjingdicanjiatanhuaneirong。

kaolvdaofanganmeirihuomeixingqidezhutihuodong，zaizheiduanshijianninhenindeairenyoushijianchangtanrenshengerburongyizoushen。libaitianzaofanhuowanfanhoudewanfanquanshifeichanghaodetiaoxuan。dangnideairenmeiqingxushuohua，bubibipota。lejieninshibushinenggoufanganshaohoukaizhantantao。

2.调节情绪

dangniquxiangyumashangbaituochouqihuozaiqinmiwujiantanhuaneirongzhongjuedejinghuanghenaonu，nideairenjiuhuidanxintamen。ruguonijuedejiaolvqingxuhezaodongbuanshi，bubishizheshuohua; dengninijuedeningjinghejizhonghua。nibuyuanjiangnidexiaojiqingxuqianyirangnideairen，tashiyigezhengzhidejueqiao。

zheibingfeishuoyuairenbiaoshunideganqingshizhongbutaikeneng - huoxushineiyang!zaiganqingshangbeiguandiaoyubiaoshuguoduoxintaiyiyangcaogaohuohenzao。keshi，ruguonichangshiyuguanjianshiqingkaizhangoutongjiaoliushi，weichinideqingganerbingbushiyicixingdiqingxietamennenggouxiezhunizuodaotongyangdeguangbozhang。jiejinquanlibubinaonudiduinideairendashenghanjiao。

zheibudanmeiyoushijixiaoguo，haihuijinideairenjuededanxin。

3.了解恰当的争执方法

zenmewanjiuhunyinweiji?lihunbianyuanruhehuitou?meiduijihunfuqichangyouyiyi。dangtamenshilingdaorenshengongjihechizetamenduizheileiguanlianyouhaishi。ruguonizaizhengbianshi，youxiaoerzhongshidibiaoshuzishenshishifenguanjiande。shizhongbubikuangjiao，tongdianhuahuoduinideairenbiaodayanfan。ninengzuoneileijinanxiubudesunhai。

nilejieniairendeanjian; bubituitamen。buguannishizaitaifahuohezaodongbuan，bixurangtamenchediyanjin。zongtimubiaobingbushisunhainideairen，zhishiyaorangzishengaoqingchu。buyaolianburongyiyouliyuzheiyangdeshiqingchansheng。

niyingdangshizhongburongyixiangzhixiqinshushuojijuhua。bubishuo“wotaoyanni。” bubishuo“rangwomenlihunba。” bubishuo“wocongmeiainineimeduo。” ruguoniqueshijiushizhitamen，buranbubishuoyiqiezheizhongci，youyuyidantashuochuqujiubukeyibatamendaihuijia，ninengdadunideairenshizhongburongyiwangdiao。

4.用“我”而并不是“你 ” 刚开始你的阐述

meishenmebideshangyi“ni”zheiyicikaishidekonggaoxunsudiyinqizhengzhi。“nimeiyoufukuanyidabixinyongkazhangdan。” “ruguonishuonixiangyaoshi，nimeiyoudaledianhua。” “nizaichuxianshiwu。”

zheileiyongyushidajiachuzaifangyuliqingkuang，lianbudaizhubukaixindejuede，tamenyibanhuigenjutishengshuyinghuoguandiaogoutongjiaoliulaizuochufanying - zheierzhedoubingbushijijizhudongdejieguo。yiner，ruguonixiangmingquetichuyigenantishi，yongyizhongtingqilaiyouwentidefangfalaibiaoshuta。

zheieryouyixieshili：“woliuyidaoxinyongkazhangdanhaimeifukuan。nizaiyijintianshangwuneimezuoma?”“wozhidaoniyouduomang，dandangnibenlibaitianxiezhuxiaopengyoumen，woqueshihenganxie。”

5.有时候会节约开支

zenmewanjiuhunyinweiji?lihunbianyuanruhehuitou?yiqihahadaxiaobingyiqiwanshuadefufubizheixiemeiyouderenweichigengzhangqidemeili。yishizhuxingtianmanlebubian，danguanjiandeshiyaodaliangdiguanxinkaixin。jibianzaizuiheiyindeshikeyekeyixunzhaoguangmang。dangnibingbushiyigewanxiaoderen，ruguonigangkaishiqinfenjinideguanlianchanshenghuanxiaoshengshi，nideairenhuijingxiwanfen。

6.别再犹豫，说“我抱歉。”

zheizhongshilingnideairensangshiquanbunaonudeqimiaoyuju。shijishang，tameiyouliuyoujinyibuzhengbiandekongjian。ruguonicuowushixiangyaorenke。nanchuburongyiyouliyudajiadeguanlian。