保卫婚姻大作战：危机前如何守住婚姻

haodehunyinshenghuolaizihaodexiguanxing，jiqiyilaigan，zaishenghuozhongyidinghuiweilingyifangweitarenzhexiang。nvrenbubiyounanshengyingdangnichongzishenyibeizideniantou，nanshengyebukeyiganjuejiazhongdejiawuhuo、weirenchushisuoyoushinvrendeshier。baoweihunyindazuozhan：weijiqianruheshouzhuhunyin?ruhejingying☞ hunyin ？

一、保卫婚姻大作战：危机前如何守住婚姻

baoweihunyindazuozhan：weijiqianruheshouzhuhunyin?nvrenyaoxuezheqianjiunansheng，tamenyoudeneishihoudoushimingandexiaohai。nanshengyaojianggongzuozhongxianxiadeshijiansuoyoujiaodaonvren，huxiangzhaogu、yikao，baozhengzuoyoudesidian，caikeyiqingsongshouzhuhunyin。

hunyinshenghuoshiganqingdezuiduoshengdian，yiweizhezheliangrenxianghukeshoujiadeyiwu。keshixuduofufujinguanmaixianglehunyinshenghuoshengdian，danyouyushijidemocaxuduodefuqiguanxizhujiandechuxianlejianxi，erqietongchuangyimeng，naizhizuochulewaiyudengyoubeishehuidaodedeshier。

weiheaiguoyihoudeliangrenqueyuelaiyueyuan?zuiguanjiandeyuanguyouyuzaipingshiderichangshenghuomeiyouyunying、weichilianggerendeqinggan。shijishangyuanyishouzhuhunyin，zhangwozheijidianqingqingsongsongnaxia。

第一、在爱人忙的那时候积极分摊家务活

dabufendeairenwanhunyihouzhenduijiazhongdeyunyingjiuyixiesongxiele，tamendouhuidengdailingyifangnuli。

yiqianlianqingdeneishihoulingyifangwanbanchongni，rangxuduorenwanhunyihouyiranhuaizheneiyangdeniantou，dengdaitarenlaihong，neiyangdeniantoufeichangrongyizaochengfuqiguanxiliekai。zaihunyinshenghuoliairenshibixuhuxianglijie、huxiangtiexinde。

yifanggongzuozhongtingmang，neimaciwaiyifangyingdangyaojijidefentanjiawuhuo，ranglingyifanghuijialejiukeyijiandaoqizhengzhengjiedewuzi、shufudeziranhuanjing，zuoyixieyouyiyideshidejiawuhuo，buyongzuodeyouduohao，keshiganlelingyifangdexinjiuhuiganjuefeichangdewennuan。

第二、意外惊喜

xuduorenganjuejielehunyihoujiushishuoyouyanjiangcu，shijishangjiehunhoudexiaoyiwaijingxi、xiaolanmandoushishifenguanjiande。bingqieyouxuduodeyiwaijingxijialijiunenggoujinxing，buyongxiaohaoguoduodezichan，liruzishenjialijianniupaitiqianzhunbeizhuguangwancan。

xueyidaoairenxihuanchidecai，dengtaxiabanledeneishihoujitamenyigeyiwaijingxi。laogongnenggoujilaopomaiyizhitaxihuandechungao，maiyigetaxihuandebao，zheizhongquanshiyixiexiaoshi，keshihunyinshenghuobixuzheizhongxiaoyiwaijingxi、xiaolipin，rangqinggantiwen。

第三、言语上的宽慰

weihexuduorendaohunyinshenghuozhongyizhifeichangrongyizhengchaohuoshishihuijiabuxiangyaoshuohua，youyudangjinshehuideyalidale，lingrenchuanbuguoqi，fanhuijiasuoyourenzhixiangganzhenshidezishen，fangkongzijidebukaixin。

baoweihunyindazuozhan：weijiqianruheshouzhuhunyin?dangairentihuilaidaolingyifangdediqiyadeneishihou，jitamentiqianzhunbeiyibeinongchahuoshishishaohukaishuitahuipaomojiao、jiehuanjiepilao，suihouqingqinglejiejinrifashengleshenmele，suihoujitamendaqitongjiyou，jiaruairenbuxiangyaoshuo，neimajingjingdipeizhetajiuxing，neiyangdekuanweikeyinuandaorendeneixinqu。

第四、身体沟通交流

baoweihunyindazuozhan：weijiqianruheshouzhuhunyin?xuduorenwanhunyihoumanmansangshilianaideneishihouzheifenjiqing，shijishangbuyongrentiyouduoqinmiwujian，keshishizhijinkou、xiangyong、jiewenzaiyishizhuxingdepingshizhonghuanshibixuturanchuxian。

meirishangbanhuijialeyigewen，chiguofanyiqishizhijinkouliuda，neiyangdexiaoxiaoqinmiwujiandezishihuanshikeyilingrenmianhongerchi，shiqichuliandeganjue。yinciqianwanbieyong“laonianfuqi”neiyangdeluojisiweilaiganguzishen，zaihunyinshenghuolihaiyaomeiyitianchangyouchuliandeganjue。

haodehunyinshenghuolaizihaodexiguanxing，jiqiyilaigan，zaishenghuozhongyidinghuiweilingyifangweitarenzhexiang。nvrenbubiyounanshengyingdangnichongzishenyibeizideniantou，nanshengyebukeyiganjuejiazhongdejiawuhuo、weirenchushisuoyoushinvrendeshier。

nvrenyaoxuezheqianjiunansheng，tamenyoudeneishihoudoushimingandexiaohai。nanshengyaojianggongzuozhongxianxiadeshijiansuoyoujiaodaonvren，huxiangzhaogu、yikao，baozhengzuoyoudesidian，caikeyiqingsongshouzhuhunyin。