知道伴侣有外遇应该怎么办

 lejiebanlvyouhunhouchuguiyinggaizenmeban？jinri huazhenqinggan wangbianjiujidahuoerdahuoerjiangxiaguanyuwozishendeguandian，qidaiduidahuoeryouyidingdexiezhu。

一、了解伴侣有婚后出轨应该怎么办

lejiebanlvyouhunhouchuguiyinggaizenmeban？xuxianbazishenyizhihao，zhaohaochuzishendeyuanyin，zhaodaozheiyijiazhongcunyoudeyuanyin。

1、痛苦情绪

 shehuixuejiagenjukexueyanjiufajue，yibantongkuqingxushicushihunwaiqingdeguanjianyuanyin，dangfufuzhongdeyifangmeifayulingyifanggongxiangrichangshenghuoxuxuduoduodeshier，huoshishiqingtuhoumeifahuodelejie。

 qinqieyouhaodegoutongjiaoliuzailianggerenzhongjianwufajinxingdehua，tongkuqingxubianhuiyouranersheng，cikeyidanhuodehunwaiqingdejiyu，haipagududeyifangjiushunlichengzhangdewaiyule。zheidoushiweiheyiguolianzuifeichangrongyichanshengwaiyunantideyuanyinzhiyi。

2、xintaizhuangtaiyaoqiudebudaokaolv

 xintaiyanjiushuoming，zaishehuijiaowangzhong，rendebixushibushibeikaolvlijiweihaizhedajiaxianghuguanxi。jiarubixuhuodekaolv，xiangchudelianggerenzhongjiandeganqinglianluojiuhuitisheng，yujijiarudebudaokaolvzaochengxinhanzhigan，jiuhuixiaoruodajiaxianghuguanxi，yizhiyushilianggerendeguanlianshengshuhuotingzhi。

 renmenchangshuo“jiufengzhijiqianbeishao，huabutoujibanjuduo”，shuodejiushishuozheiyidadaoli，lingyifangdeguanniankaolvlenidexiwangheaihao，guanliantisheng，tanhuaneirongzuyizaici，fanguolai，errendeniantourongbujin，tanhuaneirongyidinghuizhongzhi。zaihunyinzhong，yiyangkeyongzheiyijibenyuanli，jiaruyifangzaishenglixuehuoxintaizhuangtaishangdeyaoqiuzhangqixingdebudaokaolv，jiujianghuizaochenghunyinchuguidezaocheng。

3、yishizhuxingtaiguojiandanlingrenyanjuan

 yinweitaiguojiandanerchanshengyanfan，jinyibudaozhiqingbiandoushihunwaiqingchanshengdeyidayuanyin。shenghuoqijushishifenlingsuiwuqude，jiehunnianlingjiulebicidejiqinggangkaishishuilengque，yehulvelezairichangshenghuozhongshengchanzhizaoxiaoqingdiao，zheiyangdeshiqingfeichangfeichangrongyishirenjuedeyanfan，yincixiwanghunwaiqingdecijixing。