知道自己的男人有外遇怎么办

 lejiezishendenanrenyouwaiyugaizenmeban？duiyuzheiyinanti huazhenqinggan wangbiankeyizhengxunxuduodetiyi，jinrijiujidahuoerjiangxia，qidaiduidahuoeryouyidingdexiezhu。

一、了解自身的男人有外遇该怎么办

1、meiledeliwuqidezuofa

 hunyinburongyishiyichengbubiandeningjing，daoshangdouhuiyougeshigeyangdejianxin，yehuizaoshouxuduoweidaogezhonggeyangdenandian。jianxinxuduo，nandianxuduo，danshiyidiannenggouhedui，hunyinzhongnvxingzuidanyoudeshi：zhangfuyouwaiyu。

 dangxiangxinzhangfuyouwaiyu，nvxingyibandefanyingdoutongchangshiyikuernaosandiaosi，buranjiushishuoguoduanyiyanbuhezouniangjia，ziyiweishiyanbujianweijing，keshishishangxinliquebenzhimeiduandiaonianxiang。

2、soujilingyifangwaiyudezhengju

 budebuchengrenzheizhongjiejuefangshi douhenzhongdiduan，bujinbukeyizaishidangdezuijiashijijiejueqiadang，yizhiyuhuijuyoufanzuoyongli！neima，dangzhangfuyouwaiyu，laopoliyingzenyangtuoshanchulini？

 jibianduiyunieryan，zhangfuyouwaiyuzhenshijiushishuotiandadeyanlidaji，danniyepobudeyiyingdui，youyuzheijianshiqingzhinengniliangcaikeyizuozhu，bingqiezheishiyiqiedezhudaoquandouhuinideshoushang，zishenqingkuanglejianghuilijijuecezhehunyindemaixiang。

yinciniwubidaqijingshenlai，diaojiezishendexintai，bimianzhunaonu，pingjingxialai，caikeyitanranjiejueyiqie！

 tangruorujinniyulaogongzhongjianhaimeiyouhepingfenshou，nijiuxianzheshouyusoujilingyifangwaiyudezhengjuba，wulunshiaimeiduanxin，huanshitonghuaqingdan，huoshixiangpianyongyouchongzudezhengju，suanshinihepingfenshoudezichan。

 zhengjujinjinzhuazhubawozaishoushanghou，jiuzhaogeshihedejiyugentahepingfenshouba！yingduizheizhongtieyiyangdezhengju，jibianlingyifangyouzaihaodetuoci，danyepobudeyidixiatou。

3、自身考虑到去留

 lejiezishendenanrenyouwaiyugaizenmeban？zheishihoutachuzaixintaizhuangtaifangyuwanquanbenkuishike，nimeibixuguojitamenduodechize，buranguoyoubuji，rujinnikeyilizhideshuomingnidehanyi：tangruoniduizheiyiduanhunyinhaihuaiyouqidai，xiangyaokuanronglingyifang，neijiuyaohewodisanzheduanjuelaiwang，zaiciweichidajiadehunyin；danshiniruguojuecewanquansheqizheiyiduandailainitongchudeganqing，haiyaozhijieledangdeshuoqingxi。

4、说动第三者

 zaikandaidisanzheshang，jianghuinidelaogongtounaohenhulihutu，xinyehensong，danzaoyiquelibuxiangyaofangqini，neimeniguoduansipolianba，tangruodisanzhejiaoweinianqing，neixinquanshireqingbenfang，haowuyiwensixiangyishibushangnantideyanzhongxing，nijiubalaohuadeqingxidian。

 rangtagaoqingchudisanzhechazudelihai，zhinanertui，ruolingyifangbingbushinianqing，lidangzaimingshilidenianling，nijiuxuanbudegoutongjiaoliu，ruolingyifangyiranhenzhizhe，neibixuneishihouquchubixudefangshi。

zhongjiulaogongdewaiyuyuangubingfeidanyide，zhishizailaogonghedisanzheshangzhaoyuangu，neinantishizhongbukeyizhenshidechuli。