当知道老婆有外遇怎么办

 dahuoerlejiedanglejielaopoyouwaiyugaizenmebanma？jinri huazhenqinggan wangbianduiyuzheiyinantijidahuoeryixietiyi，qidaiduidahuoeryouyidingdexiezhu。

一、当了解老婆有外遇该怎么办

1、gaoqinghunhouchuguiyuangu

 xuduoneishihou，chuguinvrenquanshijiaoweiqianghande，erjiazhongdelaogongshijiaoweilieshide。zhimingdeganqingwanhuidashikangnalaoxianshengcengjingjiangguo，nvxingshizhongnengquerenzishendexiaohaishizishende，ernanrenbingbukeyiqueren。zaizheileiqinzihudongxitongxingfengxianzhizhong，chuguinvrendechengbenfeishiyaobinanrenyaogaoyuhenduode。

 yeyouyizhongjiushishuowaizaideyinyou，jiaru，yiqiantayexushiyouguoyiduannanyiwanghuaideqinggan，zainigentachengnianleiyuedeganqingshenghuozhizhongdajiadereqingzaojiubeidanqu，erdangtazaiyingduiwaizaideyinyoudeneishihoujiufeichangrongyizhaojiabuzhu，neimazheiyineishihoutajiuhuichugui。

2、追随着自身的心

 neima，jiarufajuelaopoqueshichuguineigaizenmebanni？dangnidequejienabushang，ninenghewoliyi。keshijiaruniyaoshenshenaizhetadehua，neimajiudejienazheiyikeguanshishi。

 zuixianyaozuodeshilejiehekuanrong，zhaodaoqizichuguideyuangu，jiujingjiushinibenshendenantihuanshiwaizaideyinyou。jiarushidajiazhongjiandemaodunbatabichuguide，nikeyizuodeshiqingjiushishuochaqingxishiqingdeyuangu。gaishanzishenbingtigaoziji，quchulidajiazhongjiandemaodun。

3、不必把事情弄大

 danglejielaopoyouwaiyugaizenmeban？zaoqiyaozuodeshiqingjiushishuoqianwanbiebazheizhongshiqingjinaoda，chuguinvrenbuyiyangchuguinanren，chuguinanrenshinenggourangshehuifazhanjijieshoude，erchuguinvrenjiumeibanfabeishehuifazhankuanrong，ruguoyigenvrendechuguichengbenfeiyuanbenjiuhengao，yidanchuguijiuhuirangtarenganjuetajiushishuoyigefunv，，buzhilianchideren。jibianzaixianrujinzheibanduiwaikaifangdeshehuifazhanzhong，doushimeibanfabeibeijienade。

 yinciyidanfaxianlaopochugui，jinjiyaobangtaxinxibaomi，bubiwaiyang。zhongjiunidailvmaozheizhongshiqinghuanshiyuedirenlejieyuegao。suihoujiushishuoyaobaorongta，zheidoushijiaonandeyibufen，zaihuozhiqizichuguideneishihou，nikeyigaohaoyiqiedechongfenzhunbei，laikuanrongta，kuanrongta。rangtazishensixiangyishidaozishendefanxiadebuzhengqueshishizaitaibijiaoyanzhong，rangtayouhuigaidexin。

4、正确引导她