如何拯救婚姻，要找对方法

 dangnihunyinshenghuochuxianqingkuangdeneishihou，renmengaizenyangzhengjiuhunyinni？rujinwangbianjiujidahuoerjiangxiarenmengairuhewanjiuhunyin。

一、如何挽救婚姻

1、防止語言生涩

 ruhewanjiuhunyin？shangnian，tuomasihelaopozaimeiguojiujinshanbaomingcanjialepeixunkecheng。tashuo，genjukechengneirongtaxuehaolebuzaisunhailingyifangdezhuangkuangxiabiaoshuzishendebixu，zheishitamenzaoyibuduanle8niandehunyinshenghuogengweilaogu。“tamenzhuanjiajiaoshoudemouxiefangshi shifenyouxiao，liru，danglingyifangbiaoshuzishendeniantouhou，fanfuyicitadehua，biaodahaowuyiwen，bingchanshunidegongzuojingyan，xianglingyifangbiaodagantongshenshou，zheileitanhuaneirongfangfashirenmendegoutongjiaoliugengweikaixin。yiwang，niwozhijiandexuduomaodundouyouyuyuyanshengseerchanshengde。”tuomasihaishuo：“jibianyuyanchanshengleyidianermaodunyemeishier，xiaonenggoujiejuemaodun。”tashiwanjiuhunyindezheizhongfangfa。

2、qingganrutongjinrongjigou

 zenyangzhengjiuhunyin？zaijienaxuexipeixunzhong，fufumenhaidongle1gedadaoli：meiyijianshinenggoushihunyinshenghuomaixianghemu，haikeyishihunyinshenghuomaixiangliekai。shalihesaimu6nianyiqianjienalepeixunkecheng，congzheidangzhong，tamenxuedele1gehenkegumingxindedadaoli：qingganrutongyinxingzhanghu，yecunyouzheshouruzhichunanti。dangdajiazhongjianchanshengkaixindeshier，jiudengyuzaizhanghutishengledabishouyi；xiangfan，dangdajiazhongjianchanshenglezhengzhi，yejiushishuolelinglingyifangshangxindehua，jiudengyucongzhanghulizhuanchuledabizhichu。yiner，renmenyaoliuyixiangjinrongjigoulicunkuan，neiyang，jibianfashengshenmeshishier，yebuhuixunsutouxian。erdangjinrongjigoulizaoyimeiyouchuxunaizhichanshengletouxiandeneishihou，yejiudaibiaohunyinshenghuodidaleliekaidebianyan。meidabizhangkuandezuchengjianghuiquanshibudadeshier。bazheiyijiejuehaozhengjiuhunyinqudechenggongdegailvtingda。

3、表述的关键

 wanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozaibiaoshu，fuqiganqingkechengpeixunyiyangzhuzhonglebiaoshudeguanjian：niyingdangqingxidijiangchuzishenyuanyinaxie，erbingbushidenghoulingyifangcaidaonidesixu。liru，nihenxiangqimoudianqulvyou，danshinimeiyoulijishuo，zhishiwenzheifenairen：“zheiyishujianiyaozuoxienaxie？”erjiarutameiyoujiangchuniqidaideshier，jiuouqidexiang，nandaoshuotawodesixuyekanbuchuma？suihou，nidexintaiyuelaiyuehencha，erlingyifanghaibuqingchufashengshenmeshi。dajiademaodunbianzaochengle。zhuiqiuwanmeilingyifangdezuofashiyumeide，jibiantashizheifenairen，yebutaikenengshikezhangwonidesixu。yinci，jiarunixiangshuoshenmeniantou，shiyichengxiangdaideshuochuqu，suihoudajiayikuaiertantao，zenmezuonengshidajiajuedekaixin。

 yiyangbaomingcanjialepeixunjigoudeshaenheaiwadouhaimeiwanhun，tamenjuedetizaojienaxuexipeixunnenggoufangfanyuweiran。shaenshuo：“shiwomouxiepenyoujiehunhoupengdaolemouxienandian，suihoutamendongxiangyizhiquanweizhuanjiaxunqiubangzhu，wojuedeliangzhezhijianneiyang，bibushangzaifanxinshichanshengyiqianjiuxuehaojiejue。”xuehaolebiaoshuwanjiuhunyindegailvhuitingda。

4、xunzhaonantidegenbenyuanyin

 zhulihejieyiyiwangyizhiweiwuguanjinyaodesuoshizhengchaobuxiu，shijianzhangle，tamenfajuelezheizhongxiaomaodundegenbenyuanyin。“renmenlianggerendeshenghuoqijudouqianqueluojixing。jibenshangmeixingqijieyidoushimaiyuanshuo，mianmoyouzhaobudaole，jiezhetajiuhuifenfenzaijiajiju‘zaiwomenjia，naxieyezhaobudao！’keshiwoganjuetazheijuhuashizaijingongwo，yinciwogangkaishizishenbianbo……”zhulishuo，zheileimaodunbingfeinaxienanyiyuyuedechaju，tamensuobixudejinjinxunzhaojiejuejiawuhuodexinfangshi 。yincitamenpinyonglezhengtiguihuaquanweizhuanjia。“renmenhua1000kuaiqingtabangrenmenmeishijiatingshiwu，cihouwodejiabianzhixujingranle。neiyangrenmenjiuburongyilaoyouyuzhaobudaosuochizheizhongsuoshierzhengzhile。”

5、保存私密空间

 kailunhelichadezaoyiwanhun6nianle，tamenbaochijiazhongdeyouyidefangshi feichangfeichang。zaijiazhong，tamenyouzhefenbiedewuzi，tongchangdezhuangkuangxia，lianggerendouzhuzailichadedewuzili，lingwai，kailunyouguishuyuzishendewuzi。zaineibian，tanenggouchuangzuo，bingchufangzishenpianaidewupin，liru1gelishiyoujiudexiangshuiping。kailunbadewuzibichengchajuzhongdepentou，shihuanjieyalidehaodifang。“zheishiyongyushifangchulaibubiyaodeshuizhengqide，jiarurenmenqueshifahuole，woyedaozishendewuziqushui，bingzaineibianshizishendexintaijingxiaxinlai。”

 chuangkanci：huoxu，rutongtarumouleizhiweixiangtong。zaizouruhunyinshenghuoyiqian，renmenyebixujienaxiangduidewenhuajiaoyu。zhinengjuyouledanfuhunyinshenghuodesuyang，renmencaixuehaoqiadangdejiejuekunnan。baituohunhoushenghuozhongde“luzhuang”，wanjiuaiqing，yongyouzheizhongtiqianzhunbei，renmencaiyougongzuonenglijianghunyinshenghuokaizhanjiujing。zhengjiuhunyinqujueyufangshi 。

6、享有个人暑假

 zhenduidabufenfufueryan，chuangjian“ziliudi”jianghuixiandeyouxiejiduanhua，butaishiji。danshi，xiangyoumeiduansimikongjianhaikeyichaoguotongyangdeshijixiaoguo。youyigefangfashi“fenkailvxing”，zijiquxiuxiandujia，huangeqingxu，zhibixujirideshijian，duihunyinshenghuoqueshishifenyoulide。neisenhelusidedi3gexiaohaibujiu6liugeyueshi，yinweineisendiaozhi，zhaoliao3gexiaohaidechengdanjiqisuoyoudejiawuhuodouluozailelusizijishoushang，tamendehunyinshenghuoyeyinermianlinzheichangbijiaoyanzhongdeweiji。zaizheiyi“jinjishike”，neisenshifenlijideweitazaojiule1gexiuxiandujiadejiyu，lusihuodele4tiankongyushijiandaojialifuniyazhoutanwangyimingpenyou，zaina4tianli，talinshixuehuifangxiale1gejiatingfunvdequanbushier，xiangyoumeiduanqingqingsongsongdesuiyue。erneisenzeyunyongzhei4tianshijianweifangwuganle1gedaqingli。lvyouhoudelusitizhisensuozuoderenhefeichangganxie。