当你对婚姻感到不快意味着什么：婚姻出现危机了怎么办

 dangniduihunyingandaobukuaiyiweizheshenme?hunyinchuxianweijilezenmeban?nizaoyigangkaishiduinidehunyinjuedehenman。niyunidezhixiqinshumeiyouxiangyiwangxiangtonghuashijianyiqi。dajialiangzhongjianyoujianju，nidehudongjiaoliuzaoyishuilengquele。

一、当你对婚姻感到不快意味着什么：婚姻出现危机了怎么办

 yuniwanhunshidexingfukuailexiangtong，nimeifaxiangxiangniyeshizenyangchaoguozheiyidianerde。dangniduihunyingandaobukuaiyiweizheshenme?hunyinchuxianweijilezenmeban?

zheiyingdangjiushinidelanyanzhijiba?neimafashengshenmeshi?niyaolejiezheiyirenma?

 zaiwomenjiehunleyiqian，renmenxiangxiangruguorenmenyurenmendelanyanzhijiwanhun，neirenjiuhuikaolvrenmendemeiyigebixu。dankeguanshishibingbushizheiyang，youyujibianzairenmenjiangchurenmendeshiciyihou，renmenyiranshiyouzhetongyangxinglixianghetongyangganqingyingbuxianderen。

 jibiannishenshenainidezhixiqinshu，niyiranhuijuedebukaixinhegudan。zheiyishiyiqiezhengchangde; zheibingbushibiaodanidehunyinchulenanti。

 waibiandeyaliyuanyoushihuifushinidehunyinbingshanghaidaonidekaixin。yeyoumouxieneishihou，dajialiangrenjiangpobudeyiweixianghuzijintourufujiadehuoli，bianyuzaiduxunzhaozishendechufadian。

 bubidanxin; genjurenzhengongzuoheqieerbushe，ninhenindezhixiqinshujiangkeyibaituoninyikuaieryingduidebukaixinsuiyue。xialieshimouxienenggouxiezhuninjinxinggongzuozhongdetixing。

1.再度相互信任

 ruguoniyouhuishi，ninenghuaxuduoshijianqulejielingyifang。zainiwanhunliangnianhou，nijuedeniyiranhuxianglejie - dannidepinweihuisuizhishijiandebianhuaergenggai，yexujinqidexinhuanyibujiushinidexinhuanle。

jiehunyigebuduandequanguocheng，zaidajiadeguanlianquanguochengzhongyicicidizhangwodajiadezhixiqinshu。

 huashijianqingxingdixuexipeixunduinidezhixiqinshuyouyiyideshiqingjiangfangzhiwuqu。ninengfeichangrongyididuinijuedezishenlejiederenbuxihuan，erqienijuedezidawanhunzhijinnizhenshimeiyougenggaideren。dangninulizheizhongqinfenlaichixuzhangwonidezhixiqinshu，nijiuhuifaxiantahuotahuijinichimi。

 laogongmen，wenxintixing：renmenzhangwodaoyimingjiechudekexueyanjiugongzuorenyuanduihunyinsuozuodekexueyanjiu，jiqirangzuikaixindefufugandaogaoxingdeyuangu。tafajuedeyigebiranqushishilaogongduilaopodezhangwoshuiping。(youyunvshiquxiangyudiaojiemouxieguanjiandian，yinerduitamenmeiyouhendadeqifu。)

 dabufen，laogongdiaozhilaopodezuixihuan(yingpian，sediao，huaban，danxiangshui - buguanduitameneryanzuiguanjiandewupin)deshuipingzenyang，doushilijiweihaidaotamenguanlianzhongdekaolvshuiping。

 lejiexianghudehaofangshi shigenjutaolungongzuozhong。zheizheishubaokuo275genanti，nenggoujiqihuihuabingxiezhunindaliangdizhangwoxianghu。

huamouxieshijianjinkuaizhangwolingyifang，bingguanchahunyinzhongxingfukuailehekaolvdeshuiping。

2.互相无私一下下

suzaoduizhixiqinshudewusijingshenshizhihenguanjian。shijishang，tashininengxiangmutouzideshidehunyinshangyebaoxian。

 wusiyuqiancaimeiyoushenmeguanlian; badaliangdeshijianhehuolidoujizhonghuazainidezhixiqinshushoushanghuijinidehunhoushenghuoyuelaiyuechurenyibiao。

 xiaoshierhenguanjian。weinindelaogonghuolaopochushimouxiexiaoxiaoshufu，qinggan，fujiaxiezhuhuotebieguanxin。jiarunidenvrenxiaituinata，qingxiangtachushi - bubidengtawen。huoshi，dangnidelaogongzaizaochenchulaigongzuozhongyiqianxiaihedaliangkafei，nenggouweitachongfenzhunbei，huoxunenggourengmouxiefeichangdewupin，lirutaxiaidediaoweipinhuonaichafen。

keshiyaoliuyibubiweichipingfen。xiaoershenzhongjueduibingbushibaxingfukuailedaidaohunyindefangfa。

dangbixufujiaguanxinnidezhixiqinshushi，yaokuayuexianshixinxiwusihebuqiuhuibao。nijiaojitahuotadeyinxiangmeibanfabeihulve。

3.欢度大量岁月

 jiangxingfukuailedaifanhuidajiadeguanlianzhongdeyigehaofangshi shiweixianghukongchudaliangdeshijian - zhenguide，huolisishedeshijian，erbingbushizainizaoyijingpilijieyihoushengyudeshengfanshengcai。

 dangdajiaxianghuwanleheqinmiwujianshi，dajia2gebixushijianyikuaierquwan。ruguonizhiliyuxiaohaihuonidedaibanshixiangmingxishi，nibukeyineiyangzuo。

 feichangrongyijubuweijianheshufudefangshi，zheileifangshihuishinizaizheiyidutede1dui1dehunyinzhongeduzi，keshiniwubixunzhaoyinranxianghuduizheileiyouqingdeqipandefangshi 。

 ruguonizaimeirizaojiushineikongjianshi，ninengchedihuxiangyiqi，ninengjianmansulv。zheizhongshikezhenduihunyindexingfukuaileyouweizhongyao。

 dangniduihunyingandaobukuaiyiweizheshenme?hunyinchuxianweijilezenmeban?gongxiangnidexiwang; xianghuzhijianguli。nixiwangyiqizuoyixieshiyouyongma?huoxuninengfanganyigedutedeshujia，zheidaibiaodajiaguanlianzhongdemeihaodeyitian。

 jiaruninmeifaxunzhaohuxiangkongchudeshijian，renmenjianyikaizhanshifenduandeshijianpingding。tajiangxiezhuninjianbienin(henindezhixiqinshu)deguanjianshijianshejifengge，bingjiangrangninshencengcizhangwoxianghudeshijianfangshi 。zheijiangrangnintaruqiadangdelumian，weidajialiangrenzaojiushike。

4.bubibianchengxianghuqinggandeshouhairen

 danghunyinzhongdexingfukuailesuizhishijiandebianhuamanmanxiaotuishi，yiwufeichangshaoqujueyuzhixiqinshu。ruguonichajuechuzaizheizhongqingkuangshi，feichangrongyijiangshouzhitoupianxiangnidelaogonghuolaopo，jingshenshizhifashou，zhongxinshangshi，bingjidenijuedeyingdangzaoshouchizedebuzhengquehegerenxingwei。

 bulunshenmeshihou，jiaruninzaifuqiguanxizhongpengdaobuduanhuozhangqixingbeijudenanti，ninyouyiwurenshizijideyishizhuxing，bingtichuzhiyininzaizishendezhuangkuangxiajianghuishiyanderenwujiaose。

 erbingbushidanfushouhairenrenwujiaosebingjiangyapozhederenwujiaosefenpairangnidezhixiqinshu，zhishizhiliyubianchengyigegengshenxinjiankang，gengkaixinderen。renzhengongzuobingzuochubixudegenggai，rangzishenjindaoyigegengqiangdediqu。

 wenyiwenzishen，ninnenggouduizishendegerenxingweihuokandaizhixiqinshudegongzidaiyuzuochushenmegenggai，yixiezhuxiaochuhunyinzhongdemouxiechengdan。

 zishenzuochujijizhudongdegenggaihuiduinidezhixiqinshuzaochengweihai。tahuiweihainiruhekandaizishen，nidezhixiqinshuruhekandaini，zuihou，tajiangyouyiyunideguanlian。

 jiaruninzaoshouzhixiqinshudelingnve，hulvehuolingnve，shenxinjiankangjiangshininkeyishezhishidudejiexian，weihuzishenbingzhixingzhuanxing。baozhengzaixunzhaogengshenxinjiankangdejianglaishixunzhaojishuzhuanyezixunguwenhekexinlaidepenyouhuoqinrendeshiyong。

5.jinliangdekuanronglingyifang

 rutonglusi·beier·geleiemucengjingjiangguodeneiban，“zhenzhengdeaiqingshi2gehaojiazhangderonghe。”buguanniyizhizaidajiadeguanlianzhongyingduinaxie，niyunidezhixiqinshudouwubixiangyaokuanrongxianghudequexian。

 hunyinzhongdekuanrongshimaixiangbeijudeshiqideweiyifangshi。henjianghuidajialiangrenzaoyijinxing(huoshimeiyoujinxing)erqiezaizheiliyiduanshijianneixiangxinglingyifangshuoguo(huoshimeiyoushuoguo)weihaideshier。

 jinguanweichizheileifoudingxingshiyinyou，congjintiankaishiweichinidezhixiqinshuyuqunzhongweichibixudejianju，danshiezhinidehaipabingshifangchulainiyizhizaifangyuliqingkuangxiacunyoudezhipeiquan。kouyakuanronghuicuzhangxianghudetongchu，bingshinishenhuafenli。

6.guanxinjijizhudongdeyibian

 ruguonizaihunyinzhongqinshenjinglimeiduanjianxinshiqishi，feichangrongyirangzishenchedibeixiaochenshuiyan，zhizhinimeifajiandaonizhixiqinshuyunideyishizhuxingdejijizhudongcengmian。zaizheizhongshiqi，guanjiandeshiyaoyouyijijizhudongdisuzaoduinidezhuyuandeganxiezhiqing。

 zainizaoyudecaogaozhuangkuangxia，nibudanyaoduizishendeyiwufuzeren; niyewubiweixingfudeshiguangfuzeren - huanjuhuashuo，ninengzaojiunaxiedeyichu，congniderichangshenghuohuoqu。

 peiyangyuzhixiqinshukaizhanshucijijizhudonghudongjiaoliudepingshixiguanxing。xiexietamenweilenizuodeshi; xiangtamenzhiyi; huashijianqiangdiaohuogongxiangjiniliaoxiaolianghaodewupin(huoshinilejietamenhuishangxidewupin)。

zaihunyinbeijudeneishihou，ganxiehuiweihunimianyixiaochen。

 buguanzenyang，meiyicidoujianxinhaohuosheng。dangnizhiliyuzhoubiandeshanju，niyunidezhixiqinshuyougengdadejiyubaituobukaixindeshijie。

 dangniduihunyingandaobukuaiyiweizheshenme?hunyinchuxianweijilezenmeban?keguanshishishi，renjijiaowangzaichixuzhuanbian。aiyizhizaifeisufazhan。dangninyikuaierduguojianxinshiqishi，xianghulaolaodiwojin。ruguonibaituolingyice(yexuhui!)，nijiangbiguoqugengweiqinmijiechu。