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 liru，wocengjingjianguoyiduifuqi，nanxingshilifadiandemeifashi，huopokailangleguan，yineryechangchanghenvshixiaofeizheyouchaoguojiexiandeyuyanhezishi，ernvxingzezijizuoyidianfushizuoshengyi，chupengdeyedaduoshuquanshinvhai。

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 dierciqisulihunduifangbutongyizenmeban？zhideyitideshi，zaiwozixundequanguochengzhong，yejianguoxuduonvshi，tamendehunyinshenghuozhong，yiqianjinglizhangfuchuguideshiqing。

 jinguanneishihoulijingdiaojie，zhangfuzhongguilejiazhong，queyezainvshixinliliuyoulenanyishihuaideheiying，zhizhixuduonianyihou，dengxiaohaikaodaxue，zuihouyehuanshitaruleliyidezheiyitiaolumian。

 bunankanchu，hunyinshenghuodemanyiduduihunyinshenghuoshiduomedeguanjian，neiwomenyaozenyangzuocaikeyiyouzhechaijingjiubusandefuqiguanxini?

 buyaozheji，jinri，wojiulaijiaodahuoeryizhao，zhenshinengquebaohunyinshenghuobuchuanfandeqiaomen，bangniqingqingsongsongtishenglingyibandemanyidu，shitaxinlizhiyouni。

haola，feihuabuduoshuo，xiamiandajiajiujindaozhutiba。

dajiadoulejie，manyidushihunyinshenghuodejichu。

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1、逼迫忠实

jiyouyuliquhunyinguanxidechengbenguogao，dajiajuedepobudeyizaicibaochimuqianguanlianshizhuyaobiaoxianchudezhongshi。

zheijiudaibiaozhe，jiaruyaoxianglaogufuqiguanxi，jiuxuyaotishengliyichengbenfei，zheiyeshidabufenrendoulejiedefangshi。

 liruhaoxiang，gongzuo、shejiaomeiti，fangdichan，renmaiguanxizheixie，jiaruninengbianchenglingyifangdeliyigongtongti，neimabuyaneryu，yidannanshengyishidaowaiyuhuitourujiageangguidechengbendeqingkuangxia，buguanzenyang，tayeburongyisuibianbaituozheiyibu。

dabojiushiwolejiedeyigehaiguiboshi，xiaoxiaonianjijiuchenggongchuangye，zhuanleshangganwan。

 youyicizaijuhuihuodongshang，xiaohuobanmenwanxiaohetaqizishuo“dasao，nikeyiyaokanzhongnizhangfu，dangxinnanshengfuyoujiushoudaoyingxianglee”。

ertaqiziquehaobuzaiyideshuo，“.wobudanyou，tadekehuziliaodoushizaiwoshoushang，zaihuainenghuaidaoneibianqu”。

 niqiao，zheijiushiconghuinvrendexuanze，ruoshidaboqueshilihunle，neihezhishidalianggaidong，zhenshishiziduanqibei，jianxinyigenanrenzaishayebuhuizheibanzuo。

eryongyouzheiyifenzixin，nvxingyeshibaxinfangdaoleduli，shuxingaohaofenneishi，fandaoqingganzhengzhengrishang。

shide，fuqiguanxizaimouzhongyiyishang，hechangbushiyizhongquanyidehuhuanni。

 youyuzheizhonghuoshiduoshaodequanyikunfu，ranglingyibandemanyiduyexiangduixingtisheng，meilezheixiewumisandao，hechoubukeyiyunyinghaoqingganni?

2、义务忠实

talaiziyuduiairenhuohunyinshenghuodeshehuidaodeshiminggan。

ziran，zheileishimingganyeyiyangnenggouzhonghouqisuzao，lirufeichangjiandandedadaoli，nengshenggehaizifanyanhoudai。

guoqu，haizidaibiaozhedajiazudechixu，yongyouhaizibianhuirangzhangfugengzaiyizheiyijiazhong，gengyouxinrengan。

 zhideyitideshi，jibianzairujin，yezaoyiyouyanjiufaxian，youhaizidefufuqueshibiyouguinvdefufuzhongguolihunlvdizuishao17%。

 jiandaozhei，henyoukenengyouhenduorenbuxiezheileifangfa，meiyoucuo，yinweiwobuxie，rujindeshehui，renrenpingdeng，hekuyouyuhaiziyuantianyouren。

 yinci，ciwai，haiyouyigejianyixingdetongdeqiaomen，nenggoutishengyiwumanyidu，neibianshijingchangyingyongfushuchenghudedaicijianghua，rutongyong“dajia”、“dajiade”tidai“wo”、“wode”。

 zheiyejiushizaiwuxingzhizhong，chixudeerrumurannihewoshiyitide，yirongjurongyisunjusun，jinertishengbicizhijianbicidexinrenganheshiminggan。

3、本人忠实

jidajiayouyuzaoshouairendexiyinzhu、duihunyinguanxijuedelingrenmanyi，jinerxiangyaoweichihunyinguanxisuozhuyaobiaoxianchudezhongshi。

ziranzheiyeshizuifeichangrongyirangairenjuededaoshuxin，xingfukuailedezhongshi。

 huanjuhuashuo，yaoxiangbaochipingwendefuqiguanxi，budanyaotishengliyidechengbenfei，tishengxinrengan，gengguanjiandeshiyaotishenghunyinshenghuodeyouhuoli。

 woxianglihunlexinleile，jianxinhenduorendoufajuele，wanhunliangnianzhihou，rutonggaichaogainaodedouzaoyichaowanhou，bansuizheguanliandewending，dajiazhongjianyuelaiyueweimibuzhende，zhujianlianhuatitaolundoumeile。