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 zaigerenjinglizhong，jiaruzhenghaojiandaozishendemuqin，lijia，jiumuhuoshishiguguzheixiehaoxiangdouguodebuzenmeyang，ganjuejiehunledenvxingfangfodouxuyaohenjianxinhenlaoliu。

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 dierciqisulihunduifangbutongyizenmeban？dajiadoulejie，aiqingyuhunyinshiliangmashi。danshijishiruhedeliangmashini?qubiezainaerni?

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 zairelian，youyubicizhijiandeyaoqiushuipingdouhengao，yinciburongyiganjueyounaxie，naizhidabufenrenyaoyouyuzheilei“wodeshibianshinideshi，nideshibianshiwodeshi”erjuedekaolvhexingfukuaile，zheijiushishuobailedexingfukuailetanlianaichanshengdeyunxuangan。

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 yincizaizaiwomentiaoxuanjindaohunyinshenghuoyihou，zuixianyaoyingduideyigerenwujiaosebuweidezhuanbianbianshijiexianguannian，zheiyiweizhezheiyizhongwanshanderenjiguanlian。

 woxianglihunlexinleile，erhunyinshenghuozhongdejiexianguannian，yejiushijibianjielehun，dajiayiranyaoyouzishendebiaozhunzishendeshineikongjian，zijishuodesuandedipan，baituochuxianghuyicundexingfujuede，laidaoyigegongpingdehezuoguanxizhongqu，cainenggouyunyinghaohunyinshenghuo。