只有这样的女人才能hold住婚姻，妈宝男离婚后的心理是怎样？

 lihunhoubujianhaizidehaochushishenme？jiaoshi，wohuaizheshiyishidexinlizhuangtaizaiduxiangniquxunqiubangzhu，buqingchukefouhuodenindehuiying，yebuzhidaoninhaijidewoma?woshisinianqian，nindegaobiedanshenxuesheng，xiaomi。zaidajiazhiqianwanbizixundeyigeyuehou，mabaonanlihunhoudexinlishizenyang？woqiahaohetajielehun，guihaininjilejiehunxitang。

 jiehunhouwoguodezhenxingfu，youyigesansuidekeaibaobao。zhangfufeichangaiwoyuxiaobaobao，yuanbenrenweiwomendeshenghuojiushizheiyangxingfukuailedeguoxialaile。danyouyucicifeiyanyiqing，helaogongdoufanghuzaijiali，zhangfuquehaosixinjihuoliao，zongjuedetaxinshenbuning，keshiyoumeifashuochulainayounanti。

wochangshiwenzhangfu，shifoudanyouqiyedeyewuliuchenghekaigongnantiya?zhangfuhanhuqicidishuo，dui。

 womingbaizhangfusalehuang，zaizhangfuxianzaodeqingkuangxia，wodakailezhangfudeshoujishang，fajuelezhangfuheyiweipiaoliangxiaojiejielangmandehuamantianfei，doukanwoqueshixingfen，womingbailaogongyouwaiyu，wobuyuanyiliyi，gaizenmeban?

 ciwai，jiaoshi，xiangyaozhidaonindepaibiao，xiangheninzaicifazhan，quxuexihunyinjingyinghehunyinguanxitigao。bujinshiweilegenghaodixiubuwodehunyinshenghuo，yeshiganjuewogaizaidufazhan。xiwangnindehuiying。

 woziranhaijidexiaomi，zaizhiqianzixunzhong，xiaomishoujibujinpengdaolezishenshengmingzhongdeta，bingqudechenggongtaruhunyinshenghuodeshengdian，zhidaorujinwodebangongshizhuozishangyiranyouxiaomidangchusuijiehunxitangyoulaideshengrika，ganjinlianluozhushou，fenpeilexiaomishoujidezixun。

 zaiyifanzhangwozhuangkuangyihou，fajueshijishangtamenhunyinshenghuozhongdisanzhedefasheng，queshibingbushizhangfubenrendejieguo。xiaomishoujizaizheiqizhongyejuyoulexuduo “zhugong”gongxiao。

dajiaxiankanlaiyixia，tamendehunyinshenghuoliweishenmefashengledisanzhe?

1.你变了(心理状态的变化没紧跟真实身份的变化)

 hunyinguanxizhongdahuoerchangchangyaoshuo“nibianle”，zheiershuodenibianle，shijishangbingbushiyifangqueshifashengbianhua，zhishifajuewoyunixiangxiangzhongdenibuyiyangle，suoyishuonibianle。

 congshehuixinlixuedeshijiaoeryan，ganqingzuikaishizaochengdeyuangushilaiziyutouying，touyingchanshengreqingheai。shijianjiule，fajuewoyunitouyingdemubiaoshijishanghuanshiyouchabiede，zaitouyingxiaotuihou，huifajuelingyifangdequedian、bugou、naizhishizuifangandetexing。

 xiaomizuikaishizhongyizhangfushiyouyu，zhangfujijizhudongyoujinquxin。jiehunhouzhiji，zhangfugengweijijizhudongdequkuozhangongzuo，meiduojiubianjianggongsijingyingdexiaoyousuocheng。

 xiaomiyunqixueqilejiatingzhufu，shijianjiule，yizhijuedezhangfubuguanbugujia，meitianmanggongzuozhong，buzhaoguhaozijidetihui。zhangfuhenyilvdexiang：nidangshixihuanwoneiyang，rujinweishenmeyouzulanwogongzuozhong，zhengzhichixu......

zhangfubianhaosi《wodeqianbansheng》zhongdechenjunsheng，zaishenbianfajuelejieyuhua，zheijiuweidisanzhefasheng，maixialehuohuan。

2.用苛刻的目光对待恋人

mabaonanlihunhoudexinlishizenyang？yiqieyiduanhunyinshenghuofashengnanti，shijishangquanshilianggerenyitonggongxiaodejieguo。

 shehuixinlixueli，youyimenjishuxingchengweijiatingxitongyizhi，zaixitongruanjianyizhiliyouyijuhensunrendetiwenjishuxing，shineiyangshuo：“nishiruhebanidenanrensongzhibiedenvxingshenpangdeni?”jianyideyijuhua，jiujiangchulefuqiguanxidezuigaojingjie。

jiehunhoulianggerenbeiyouyanjiangcusuorao，zhangfuzaiwaimianzhengqian，xiaomishoujiganjuelingyifangshouhoutaishao;

zhangfuzaijiagongzuopeiwa，xiaomishoujiganjuelaogongbuzhuanxinzhizhi;

zhangfutaileiledaochuangjiushui，xiaomishoujiganjuelingyifangmeishenmeshenghuolequ……

 yongxiaomidehuaeryan：“woyijinghaojiumeiyoujiandaozhangfudeshenshangdeyoushile，wonaizhimeiyouduitabiaomingguoshangxi，jibianzaitasongwolipindeqingkuangxia，wohaiganjueshipeili，erbushishuoaiwo。”

lihunhoubujianhaizidehaochushishenme？nitingjianxiaomishoujineiyangshuo，nishifouhuiyeshiyouyaoxiangtaochudetihui?