lihundenvrenhuihouhuima?“nvqiangnanruo”,shenmeshi“nvqiang”?lihunganwujingdianmingyan,shuobaiyidian,bianshipinfuchajuguoda,jinvhaidezhengqiangongzuonengliyuanyuandigaoguonanhaizi,buzuojiawudenvrenlihunlv,zheileihunyinshenghuofangshidounenggouchengzhiweinvqiangnanruo。
lingrenfeijiedeshi,zainvqiangnanruodehunyinshenghuolidouguodefeichangxingfukuaile。
fanyueweixingongzhonghaonaizhishiweiboresoubang,dahuoerguangfanyouyizhongrenzhinengli,bianshixintongfushouerhuodetaileile、taipin,baoyuantazhangfutaibuxing,chengshoubuzhuzheiyijiazhong,cairangfushouerpobudeyineimeqinfendequzhengqian。
buzuojiawudenvrenlihunlv,renyoufushouershucizhuzhongzishenguodezhenxingfu,laozhaoduitashiduomededehao,dahuoerhaoxiangdounanyiqujianxinqujieshoutamenzheileihunyinshenghuofangshi。
lihunganwujingdianmingyan,huiguotoukanxianshishenghuozhong,nvqiangnanruodeqinglvyaoxiangjiangaiqingkaizhanjiujing,yeshikunnanzhongzhong,naizhizuizhonglianganqingzhongdelianggerendouyaoxiangsheqi。zongshiqianbanshebude,querengranchengdanshishijidemolian。
neimaweishadajianeixinnvqiangnanruodeganqinghenmingan?
1.自尊挫败
zaoshoushehuifazhanhuozhechuantongshiguanniandeweihai,dabufenzhongguorenqijindoujuedenanshengjiaruzaigecengmiandoubinvhaiqiangyixiehaoxianghenlisuodangran。
eryidanjiazhongfashengnvshideshouyibinanshenggaoduobeidezhuangkuang,dajiayiban huitingjiandeyuhuishi“yanglegexiaobailianer”huozhe“zhanan”,yuyanzhongbiaoluzheduizheigenanrendebuxieyigu。shuodeduole,nanshengmianbuleyehuijuedezizunzaoshouletiaozhan,zaochengxiuchigan。
dajiadoushuojingjijuecerendequanmianfazhan,erzaihunyinshenghuozhong,nanshengyehuiyouyumeiyouyouyueganheyingxianglijuedebuzixin。
zhangciyiwang,zaisuonanmianyouxintaizaocheng,zheishihouruomeiyouhuodeshenpangde“zhichangnvren”dekuanrongyujieshou,lianggerenzaisuonanmiandachaoyijia,xincunbufuhe,hunyinshenghuozuihouyejinyoucaolvshouwei。
2.再强,也会弱
zai《qipashuo》dezuizhongyiqi,jiaozhubbqueendeqingkuangxia,zoudongdejingdianhuayuwang,fushouertaileile,jilaoliufaxinxineirongshuo,wotaileile,wokeyibudebunongle。laozhaoshuo,keyiya,bunongzanjiuhuijiale。fushouerguohoushuo,neiyike,tajuedezishenyouqiangjingdezhuxingu,yincijianchibuxielechulai。
zheishijishangyeshifushouerhelaozhaonenggoujianghunyinshenghuoguodeshunfengshunshuideguanjianyuangu,fushouerqueshihenqiang,keshitayehuijiangzishende“ruo”zhanxianjilaozhao,laozhaojinguan“buqiang”,keshinengjiandaofushouerderuo,jieshoutaqiangdeyimian,naizhishigongjinenglideyimian,gengnengzaitabixudeqingkuangxia,jiyufuwei。
fanguolai,zaishijidenvqiangnanruodehunyinshenghuoli,changchangtingjiandeyijuhuashi,jiaoshi,wobuganzhanxianwoderuo,wohaipawodejiahuizouxiapolu,youyutazaoyitairuole。
jiaoshi,tadangshibianshiyouyulejiezishenbuhao,yincizhaodewo,woxiangruochulai,tajiulikaile,danshiwotaileile……yigedanyoubukeyijieshou,yaochengzhe,lingyigekanbuchulailingyifangderuo,neiyangdehunyinshenghuo,zuizhongzongshishiganqingdemuzang。
3.职责分工不科学
dajiachangshuo“nanzhujiaowai,nvrenzhunei”,xianzaishinvhaishouyigaoyunanshengduobei,bianwei“nvzhujiaowai,nanzhujiaonei”,zheidoumeiyounanti。
chunantidediqushi,lianggerenzhizefengongbukexue,nvxingganjuezaiwaimianmangdeshoumangjiaoluan,huijialeyihouzhiweilaizaishafashang,ernanshengshoudalaoyemenguanniandeweihai,xiaohaiwulun,jiawuhuobuzuo,chanshengyifangmaiyuan,lingyifangxintaizegenggaodejushi。
zaiduocidemaiyuanyuzhengzhizhong,nanshengzhujianganjuezishentaoyanzhichangnvren,nvxingzeyiduzibiequganjuenizhuandeshao,jiazhongbujiuyingdangduozuoxiema,nanshengyoujueburenke。
lihundenvrenhuihouhuima?zuihoulianggerendeguanlianlunluosanguanbuhe,liyi。
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