离婚一方不同意怎么样才能离？有什么办法？

 yiqianzaiweiboshangkanleyigehuatitaolun：lihunyifangbutongyizenmeyangcainengli？zenyangcaisuanaishangyigeren?youyigehuiyingshi：nitaoyanxianliao，quezongpeitatandaoshengengbanye，nikanledeyingpian，quexiangyaoweitazaikanyibian，zainizheier，tarenbukeyizuodeshier，tadounenggou。lihunhouqianwanbuyaofuhun，ruguoniduiyigerenyongyouqiangdaoluoji，neimeniyidingshiaishangyigerenle。

 zhiqiantingjian"shuangzhongbiaozhun"zheigeci，ganjuetashi"woneng，dannibuxing"demanbujiangli。keyidanbazheigecifangruganqingli，ninengfajue，yuanxianganqinglide"shuangzhongbiaozhun"，shijinnikejiandewenrou，shizhixintengnidezhongai。

zheiyaowoxiangdaolesanmaozai《jiehunji》lideyiduanxiaogushi。

 youyici，hexiwensanmao："niyaojiageshenmeyangderen?"sanmaohuiying："kandekanbuguan，qianwanfuhaoyejia，kanbuguan，yiwanfuhaoyejia。"

 hexishuo："shuolaishuoqu，nihuanshiyaojiajiyouqianren。"sanmaolikeshuo："yeshiyouchuwai，ruguonidehua，zhixugouyongcanjiukeyile。wochidehenshao，zhihouhainenggoushaochidian。"

 lihunhouqianwanbuyaofuhun，dayuezheijiushiaiba，zaiyujiannizhihou，wodadaolezishenyiqianyuzhideyiqieguifan，huoxuwoduirenshengdaoluyoutaiduotaiduoyichengbubiandeshezhi，danniyizhizaiyiqieyiwai。

 sanmaoyiqianshuoguoyijuhua："jiarukuaijiwodehetarenyiyang，neiwoyebuyongle。"shijishangrendaoyiduanqingganzhongzhuiqiuwanmeide"shuangzhongbiaozhun"，danshibianshiyifenzhongai。

 neiyigequeshizhenzhengainideren，rangnideyidingbingbushiduilurendewenminglimaohequanmian，yebushiduiqinqipengyoudejiqingheqinjin，zhishizhiduiniyigerendezhongai。yiyang，jiaruyigerenlianzheiyidianzhongaidoubuyuanyirangni，neitayidingbuaini。

 haoguimifenshoushi，shuotahenanpengyoumeiyicizhengchao，wulunshenmeshiqing，nanpengyoudouxiaibashierbaikaile、rousuilehetajiangli。haoguimineixinbiequ，danshixiangyixiangliangrendoubingbushixiaopengyou，zongrangnanhaizizhiqiandoubuyingdang，zishenjiujijishiruole。

 danshijicisanfan，haoguimiqueshiyouyixiehanxinle，chaodezuimengliedeneiyici，tachongzhenanhaizidahou："jishibicizhijiandebicizhijiankuanrongshilunliuzhi，yegailundaonileba?nandaoshuobicizhijianchukaijiangli，jiubukeyiyoudianerwennuandedongxima?"

nanhaiziyilianwuyuanwugu，gentashuo："woshizheiyangderenderena，niyoubushibuqingchu?"

 zhenzhengainideren，yizhihuiyouyunierganyuchuangxin，zhidingzhishuyunideqiangdaoluoji，kebuzaihuniderenquezongshibatongyibiaozhunzuoweitangsainidetuoci。

 aishiyouyuyouqubiecaibaogui，rutongyigeduisheidouyibaifenjiqingderen，jiaruduinishiyibaifen，neimenibutaikenenghuidadong。danjiaru，taduitarenquanshi0fen，duinijiusuanjinyou60fen，nirengrannengganshoudaotaduinidezaihu。

 yiqianyouyigelejiehaoduoniandetongxuemen，yesuanzuogeligongkegangtiezhinan，haolehuabuduoshuo，danjujuchuoxinzhangci，duideniyixiazixiangdaren。

 youyicidajiasigeguanlianhaodetongxuemenjucan，tanvyoudalaishipinyuyin，wodezhinanshenggezhonggeyangguanxintitie，congtouzhiweixuxutaotao，zhengzhongjianjuranhaikaiqilewanxiaohua，dajiadouzhenjing。

 zheiqueshizhengshilezheijuhua："aishangleni，wobianbuhuizaijiushiwole。"weiyouninengkandaowodexiao，yeweiyouninengxiangyouwodehao，woyanzhongdezijiduinidezhongai。

 haijidekan《tianlongbabu》，libianyouyigejingcaipianduan，azizhiyixiaofeng："azhuyoushenmehao，weihenizhiyoukandaoazhu，quekanbujianwo。"

 xiaofenghuiyingshuo："nimeiyangdouhao，meiyangdoubitaqiang，nizhiyouyigequexian，nibushita。"xiaofenghaicenggantan："azhujiushiazhu，sihailieguo，qianqiuwanzai，jiuzhiyouyigeazhu。"

woyizhijuedezhenshiaiyigerenshimeiliyou，doumeiyouguifande，jinjinhuibuzijuedizaixinzhongbatahebierenqubiekai。

 rutongzuojiaguchengyiqianjilaopoxiedebiaobaixin："liechekailaikaiqu，shangbianfangmanleren，yousuobutong，nidoubingbushi，nishiyizhongmouxiederen。"

 aiyigerenjiuzheiyangba，suiranxiguanbuguilvxingdezuoxishijian，danyiranhuizhunshixiangnijuedechizaoan;suiranxiaizhaizaijia，danhuanshixiwangyunipengmian;suirannideshenshangmeiyouyitiaohehucengjingdewodezhaoduixiangdebiaozhun，danwohaishibunengyizhidishenaizheni。

yinweiai，yincishinibianchenglewoshijielidemouxie，buzijuedijinixiediaokuijia，shinicihoubianchenglewoderuanzhu。

 yinci，lihunyifangbutongyizenmeyangcainengli？zuihaoshidelangmandehuayexubingbushi"woxihuanni"，zhishi"weiyouninenggou"。