为什么我们从不劝中年夫妻离婚？离婚第二天可以复婚吗？

 shengwanhaizijiulihunkeyima？sanshierli，sishierbuhuo，wushierwushizhitianming。yibandajiachangshuodechengnianren，lihundiertiankeyifuhunma？zhengchuzaisanshierlihewushizhitianmingzhongjianderen。

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 zhengsuowei：qingshaonianfufulaolaiban。dangyiduifuqizongsuanlaidaozhonglaonianyihou，xuduohunyinshenghuojuecedoubukeyizaixiangnianqingshiyiyang，guangpingyishichongdongjiusuibianxuanze，zheishiweishenmeni?

diyi、chengnianrendetiaoxuanfanchouxiao

 chengnianrenchuzailaonianrenheqingshaonianzhongjiandenankanbuwei，bulunshiwanhunhechuduixiang，huanshigongzuozhonghezizhuchuangye，doufeichangrongyizaoyugaobucheng，dibujiudejiongjing。

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dier、chengnianrendeganqingwaishanggengnanxiubu

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disan、chengnianrendeaiqingyuhunyingengweimingan

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 gongzuo、gongzuozhong、fangwu、qingmian、quanyi、shenxinjiankang……chengnianrenyouguoduodegujile，zheirangtamenyaoxiangzaizhonglaonianzaicijinxingyiduantanlianaihehunyinshenghuobidingzaoyudaoduofangmiangongzuoyali，zheizhonggongzuoyalifeichangrongyirang“congming”dechengnianrenzaiyicitiaoxuansheqi。

 shengwanhaizijiulihunkeyima？shuodaozheier，jianxindajiadounenggaoqingchuweishajihuyebuquanzhonglaonianlihunhou，jinguanhaiyouhenduo“jianpanxia”shuozishennenggougaoxingdidanshendaolao，danshizhongjilao，babamamazhongjiuhuilaoqu，xiaohaiyehuichuxianzishendejiazhonghejianglai，zhongnianfuqiyidanliyi，wuqiongdegudankenengshitamenhoubanshengwufajiejuedeemeng。