有婚外情的男人还值得挽回吗？离婚第二天可以复婚吗？

 shengwanhaizijiulihunkeyima？yiduanhunwailianzhong，zongshihuifashengneiyangdezhuangkuang，yifangwaiyu，lingyifanghuizaochengyihuo：tazheiyangderen，feichangzhidewoyaoquwanliuma?hunyinshenghuobubiwupin，yanle、fanlejiudiuqi，zaihuoshihuanyigexinde。lihundiertiankeyifuhunma？hunyinshenghuolibiancunyouzheqinggan、zhenqing、yiwu、quanyi、jinqianzheixieguanxi。

 yigerenfancuowu，ruoliyi，jiuxuyaogenggaiyixiliedeguanlian，henduorenbuyuanxiazheteng，gengyouderenshebudezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo。

shubuzhi，chuziyuduichuguizhedebuxinren，henduorenzhujiantichuzhiyizheiyiduanqingganzhibuzhiwanliu。

yigenvyueduzhesiliaoxunqiubangzhu：laogongchugui，buqingchuyingbuyinggaiwanliu?

“wodemingzijiaoxiaozhao，helaogongjiehunshinian，meifajuetawaiyuqian，woyizhijuedewomendehunyinhenhemu，xingfukuaile。

 yicibujingyijiyu，tawaiyudeshierbeiwofaxian，woyagenbuganxiangxinzheiyikeguanshishi，zaiwoxinli，wolaogongyizhishigejieshenziaideren，tazaibierenyanqianyouqidechuantong，lianguangzhegebodouganjuehenguoyibuqu，zenmekenenggenyigeshengshunvxingfashengxingguanxi?

 woshigecunbuleshierderen，zaifajuetawaiyudeneiyike，lijizhaotazhiwen。neiyike，woduoxiangtajizijibianboyiliangju，gaosuwozheishiyigezhuonong，ketajianmolejimiaozhong，lijirenkelezishenwaiyu。

 lihundiertiankeyifuhunma？xiaosanshitagongzuozhonglejiedeyigenvren，xingqingzhilv，gentalianjiegongzuozhongdeqingkuangxia，gongzuoxiaolvyouqigao。laogongcongyikaishideqinpeita，daozuizhongdexiaishangta，jinyonglesangeyuedeshijian。

 nvdehenhaoshuang，buzaiyitashifouyoujiazhong，wandejinjincijixing。erwoshiyigemiantiandenvxing，chukaiwolaogong，lianyigeyixingyemeiyou，yinci，laogongduitazaochenglehaoqixingan。woxiangxiangdouganjueshangxin，haoxianggentaliyi，shengduoyidaduizaoxinsi。

kehuishouyixiang，zheixieniandeqinggan，jiuneimecuobujifangdeliyi，woqueshiyoudianermeifajiena。

chaojianaoguoyihou，woxunwentashifouyouhouhuimojizishendechugui，tajuranchiyileyixia，caigenwoshuohouhuimoji。

 zheiduanshijian，youyufeiyanyiqing，meigerendouzaijialiwozhebunengchumen，tabenbianshigebuxihuanfayanderen，zaijialiyehenshaojianghua，yijianshiheheqiqi，wanshoujideshijianxianzhujiangdi，dabufendoushizaipeixiaohaixiezuoye，yeyoujiwojiawulaodong。

 woyufabumingbaizheigeren，woyebuzhidaoyingbuyinggaijiyutakuanrong，tazhibuzhiwokuanrong，yinweiwomeifakaoliang。zongeryanzhi，yixiangqidajiahenyoukenenghuiliyi，woyehennanguo，shenmeshiqingdouzuobujinqu，juederichangshenghuodoushiququdongli。haofanzao。”

 yigechuguinanrenshibushifeichangzhidekuanrong，guanjianshikanzheigenanrenshifouguanfan，jiaruchangchangwaiyu，qiebawaiyudangzuoyizhongxiguanxing，dangranbukeyiqukuanrong。

 danshi，jiaruzheigenanren，shiyishifanlehulihutu，meinengchengshouzhewaibiandeyinyou，nenggouduofangmianzhengqueyindao，xiubuhewanliudajiadehunyinshenghuo。

 xuduonvxingzaifajuelaogongchuguihou，haositiantadejuede，jiuganjuerizimeifaguoxialaile，yidinglihunlecaikeyijiehen。shijishang，hunyinshenghuobunengyongouqilaifenbianhequhecong，chuguidehunyin，biranshifuqijiancunzaidewenti，jinjinzishenmeiyoufajuebale。

 yigehunyinshenghuohemudejiazhong，nanshenghuichuxianjiaoqiangdezizhili，burongyizuochupanbianjiazhongdeshier。ruoyiciguocuo，jiuwanbizishendehunyinshenghuo，neiyangdezuofa，guoduqinglv，lingrentongxi。

 congnidehunyinshenghuokanlai，pingchangniyulaogongdeqingganfeichanghao，jibenshangmeiyoudafenqi，taciciwaiyu，yelejiedaozishendebuzhengque，jinjinnijuedetadexintaibuzuguoduan，niduitazaochengtichuzhiyi。

duiyucishi，zuochujigefangmianpouxitiyi：

qiyi：kantashibushihewaibiandenvxingbuzailianxi。

 yigenanrenshibushizhongguijiazhong，diyibujiudekantashibushihewaibiandenvxingbuzailianxi，zheiyibuhenzhongyao。xuduonanshengzuibianshuoduandiaowanglai，sixialirengzaigenlingyifangjiuchanbuqing，yinci，zheiyidian，yaoguanchajishi，bukeyihulve。

qier：kantaduinihexiaohaishibushirenzhen。

 waiyuqieyouliangzhidenansheng，zaipanbianjiazhonghou，huiduilaopohexiaohaizaochengkuijiudexin。jiarutaqueshizhongguijiazhongli，huiduinihexiaohaigengweirenzhen。

neixinshirouzhangde，nidekuanronghebujijiao，huihuanqichuguizhedeliangxin。

qisan：kantashibushiduinizuoyixieshierkaizhanpeichang。

 yigezhenxinshiyizhongguijiazhongdenansheng，zaizuoyixieshierdeqingkuangxia，huizhuyaobiaoxianchuzishendexinxin，huiyouyidequyueni，genjugerenxingweifangfa，shiniduitaxuehuifangxiagehe，weicilaitianbuzishendeyanegan。

kuanrongshijishangbiliyigengbixudanliang，kuanrongjinguanjinjinyijuhuadeshiqing，keshikuanronghouderichangshenghuodequebuyi。

 yinci，jiarutiaoxuanlehaohaoshenghuorizi，jiuxuyaojianjiandidequxiaohuaxishounixinlideyigen“ci”，changshirangwangshiqingling，buran，xincungehe，rihouyidinghuibianchengdajiahunyinshenghuofenqidedaohuosuo。

 shengwanhaizijiulihunkeyima？wanhunfeichangrongyi、shouhunnan，hunyinshenghuobixuhuxiangzunzhong、xianghuzhijianbangfu，xianghuzhijiankuanrongcaikeyizoudegengzhangyuan。