男人还是想要出轨？老公欠债太多该离婚吗？

 duizhunbeilihunnvrendezhonggao，yigepenyouqingtutadehunyinxianzhuang，wanhunbushangsannian，xiaohaigangyisui，laogongchuguile。rangrenwufaxiangxiangdeshi，zheigenanrenduitafeichanghao，jiawubangzhuzuo，xinshuishangjiao，zhidaoxiaohaixiezuoye，laogongqianzhaitaiduogailihunma？naizhitiexinxinidaotalailijia，tadounengjizhurizi，lihundenvrenhaihuijixutishitabubichilengshi，buranhuiduzitong……

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beichuochuanhou，talaogongdediyifanyingshigezhonggeyangaiqiu，mashangzhongguijiazhong，qiutakuanrong，bingquebaoburongyiyouxiayici。

 laogongqianzhaitaiduogailihunma？penyoushuo，jiandaotazhiqiandeneifuchouezuilian，tayouyizhongexinxiangtudejuede，taganjuezishendelaogongzhanwuletamendeqinggan。tagengbumingbai，jiujingtanaerzuodebutaihao，tayaoyongwaiyuqucuicanta?

 tadaishangyihuodongxianglaogongzhuitaohuida，huodedeshizhongshijianmo，tayouqiyouhen，leishuidouxuyaokuzuole，yiranwufadedaolaogongdeyiqiehuifu，weiyinenghuodedebianshi“xifu，woduibuqini”zheijigezi。

laogongchuguiduitaeryanbianshiyizhongmeishenmetifangdeyanlidaji，zheileishierconglaibuzaitadedanyoufanchounei，kehuanshifashengle。

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hunyinshenghuoyurendebenxing，yuanbidajiaxiangxiangdemingan。jibaiganqingdecongbushishijianhejianju，zhishizisizilihechongdong!

 waiyuhezhongshi，youshijiuzaiyinianzhijian，zhixuyizhizhuzishen，chengguoqule，hunyinshenghuojiunengquebaojizhi，kangbuyiwang，xiangyouleyishidekaixin，henyoukenengshenhouyaotourunimeifayujidechengben。

woguoyijuhua：ganqingfeichangrongyi，hunyinshenghuoburongyi，zhenzhengdeaiqingliangrendeshier，hunyinshenghuoshiliangjiarendeshier。

 qianbujiudexiandaidoushirebodianshiju《yujianxingfu》，julijihunnanxinghuangfuyanyanhelaopodehunyinshenghuojinrulerenshengdigu，tazaiyingduipiaoliangmeinvsuqiandegaobaishi，tashuodaoleneimeyijuhua：“hunyinshenghuobingbushilianggerendeshi，woxiangduiqinrenchengdan”!

 tagenlaopozaojiumeiyoushenmigan，liangrenrichangshenghuozaiyiqi，jibenshangmeiyougongtonghuati，taxiaisuqian，keyingduisuqiandegaobaishi，takongzhizhulezishen，lizaishehuidaodedeshijiaoshang，shouhaolezuizhongyidaofangyu，meiyourangzishenmaichuzheibuzhengquedeyibu。youyutamingbai，jiayouxiurencaishizheiyishijiezuiyingdangaixi、weihuderen!

gongzhonghaohoutai，changchanghuizaoshouyueduzhedeqingganhunyinxunqiubangzhu。

 xuduoyueduzhezaiqingtuzishendehunyinshenghuodeqingkuangxia，dabufendoushihuishuodaozheijuhua：“wanwanxiangbudao，tahuiwaiyu……”

zheiyishehuifazhanyinyouwusuobuzai，dajiadoushihuizaiqingganzhongzoushen，wulunshei，yizhiyibuliushenbeichongdongdaizhezou。

 yiduiaideyusiyuxiandefufu，zaiqizhongyifangshuoyiqingbielianjiuyiqingbielian，cuobujifang，zuihoushouhairenyifangchangbianlebeiairenpanbiandetiansuankula，erwaiyufangzezaixiuchiganheyaneganzhongjianxinduguo。

neimajindaohunyinshenghuozhong，zenmerangfuqiguanxizhangqibaochi，bimian lingyibanwaiyu?tiyi：

其一：不抠门自身的赞扬。

 bubijiuzheyigexiaobuzhengquemeifang，gengbubibalingyifangdehao，zuoweilisuodangran。duojiyulingyifangzanyang，shitaganshoudaobeigaoduzhongshi，beixuyaodejuede，caikeyiduirichangshenghuogengyouqudongli，caikeyigengqiangdekezhizijiduoyudechongdong。

其二：夫妇要挤压時间多交往，多沟通交流。

 xuduofuqiganqingchunanti，dabufenquanshiyouxiaohaide。youyuxiaohaihuizhanyoufufuyitongdeshijian，meiyoububiyaodehuoliquyurenxiangchu。zheishideqingganshizuifeichangrongyichunanti，yinci，wulunzailei，fuqijiandeyurenxiangchuyidingyaojiyashijianlaijinxing，buguanzailei，richangshenghuodegediaohexinyibukeyihulve。

其三：试着做有意思的事，创建一同的个人爱好。

 zhitongdaohederenzaiyiqicaihuiyouyisi，caikeyirangrichangshenghuotishengwujindekuailegan，rangpingpingdandanderizijuedebushangkuzao。

其四：立即表述自身心里的体会，重视，适用，坚信另一方。

 fuqijiandejiaowangmianbuleyoubuyiyangjianyideqingkuangxia，yaoshidudibiaoshuzishenxinlidetihui，ranglingyifanglejiezishenzaixiangganshenme，erbushiquchuaicenidesixu，gaodebicizhijianshenxinpibei。

 renherenzhijianshixiangduixingde，tangruoshinengjiyulingyifangchedidexinlai，yejiunengrangairenduiniduoyifenshiminggan。xianghuzhijiancaiyi，zongshitishengqinggandejianxi，jiakuaiqinggandeliekai。

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