老公欠债太多该离婚吗？婚外情他什么不肯断掉？

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 woyulaogongtongling，xiangqinyuehuilejiede。wanhunsuanbushangzao，27suijiedehun，jiehunleyihou，jiuzhujianbeiyunqihuaihaizi。woduitameiyouduononghoudeqinggan，jinjinganjuedaojiehunnianji，gaizhaorenjiale，gouchengyigejia。

 jiehunhouwofaxianletaduinihenhao，yiqieshierquanshiyiwoweizhu，henzhongshiwomenjianyiheniantou。wanhunliunian，dajiayizhiyouhaoxiangchu，zhujiandewojiangtafangdaoleneixinzuizhongyaodebuwei。

 yebuzhidaocongheshizhujian，tayuelaiyuebunaifan，meishaojinsuozhe，feichangshaojiantajinxingguo。genwofayan，yeshiyuwulunci。wohaimeiganxixinchata，fajuetachuguile。

 lingyifangshitadeqiannanyou，lihun，daishangyigehaiziguo，tabuxiaodenaerlaidezerenxin，quzhaoliaota，jieguohehaoruchu，gaochuhunwailian。taduibabamamahenxiaojing，zheileishangfengbaisudeshier，ruoshichuanrutababamamaerduoli，yidinghuishitananguo。

 laogongqianzhaitaiduogailihunma？woshizhezhegentagoutongjiaoliu，shitabubiyinhuozifen，haohaodiderizidanshi，weiheyaozaizheiliduanmeiyoujieguodeqingganzhongpanghuang，nandaoshuoyebukaolvdaowodeganshouma?

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 wogezhonggeyangfangshidouyongle，tadexingzigenjuelvyiyang，yagenniuqubushangtadeguannian。zaoyisangeyuele，taweilegenghaodipawogentazhengchao，gezhonggeyangtuocibuhuijia。

 zheiqineihenduorenquanwoxiangyaokaigedian，lihundenvrenshuodongbushangta，yaobujiushuangkuaidelidiao，yaobujiujienatadegerenxingwei，dengtazishenxiangkaile，zishenjiuhuishoule，buranmeitianshenxianzheileiyoushangdexintaizhong，yijianshieryanshiyizhongnanao。wogaifangkaishouma，jiaoshi?”

goutongjiaoliuzhong，zhengnvxingdewunailingrenxintong。dangyigenanrenmeizhuyiqinghezhongshi，dequelingrennaoxin。

 yigenanren，buzaiyizishendejiazhong，wulunlaopodetihui，paoqugenciwaiyigenvrentouhuaisongbao，haishuochengtianbudangchudequehan，zheibenlaibianshiyizhongwaiyudetuociheyuanyin，shitaobizerendezhuyaobiaoxian，quebazijishuodeneimagaoduandaqi，zhenshishizhadaozhiji。

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yinci，weiqingzixunguwenjilezhengnvxingtiyi：

 zaizheiliduanhunyinshenghuozhong，nilaogongmingzhidaotadegerenxingwei，huiduinidaozhisunhai，rengranneiyangquzuo，zhiyoubiaomingzaidisanzheyoukeyixiyinzhutadediqu，zheiyixiyinzhudianyingdangweikurouji。

 nimiaoshuzhongjiangdao，nilaogongqiannanyouzaimeiyoulihunyiqian，dajiahunyinshenghuohenhemu，tadejiatingzerenganyehenqiang，yinci，dangjinrenyiyigeruoxiaodezhenshishenfenfashengzainizhangfumianqianshi，jiqiletadezerenxin。nilaogongzheigerentairenci，youshi，yourouguaduanbingbingbushiyijianhaoshi，tashitadeyoushi，yeshitadequexian。

 xinruanderen，feichangrongyibeibierenbawozhuquedian，beibierenyunyong，henxianzhudisanzhehenzhangwonilaogong，caihuijiangnilaogongzhidefufutietie，bawozhuyigezhangqifanpiaoshebudefangkaishou。

ninengyingyonglaogongdezheiyidian，duitakaizhanzhengqueyindao。

 bazijilieshideyimianchengxianchuqu，jiqilaogongdezerenxin，xianshitabasixuniuqudaojiazhongzhong，suihou，yingyongzhenqingkunfuzheta，shitameiyoukongyuqulicaidisanzhe。

 zaizheigeqinei，jidisanzhezhaoyige‘nanyou’，rangtayouchongzudeguishugan，rangtabaqingganqianyichuqu，caikeyibujiuchanbuqingzhehunwaiqingrenbuhuitou。lingwai，quanjienilaogong，bingbushijinyoutakeyijiyudisanzheguishugan，yiqieyigenanrendounenggou，tazhibuguolingyifangdeyigecongcongguokebale。shitalejiezijiderenwujiaosebuwei，niyiweizishenzailingyifangyanzhongduomededejiechu。

 duizhunbeilihunnvrendezhonggao，dangtafashengshiluogandeqingkuangxia，bangtadiaozhengqingxu，jiyutawennuan，shitaganshoudaoyijiarenzaiyiqidewennuangan，caikeyiwanquandexuehuifangxiahunwailian。