婚姻急救绝招有什么？离婚对孩子的伤害真的很大吗？

lihunduihaizideshanghaizhendehendama？zaoshoulaogongchugui，meinvmendehaijijiliangquanshiwuhuabamende。wangshangzixunlihunlvshishiwusuo，youhaosidongxiaohuahuaruci，jianglaogongchuguigerenshijifabudaohulianwangshang，jitamengendisanzhezhimingyijide。

yerutongzhangyuqineiyang，fajuelaogongchuguizhihoulikesatuoliyi，wufarongrenyiqieqingganwuzide。

dandaliangdeshixiangmayilirucidenvxing，zailaogongchuguizhihou，tiaoxuanyuanliang，gentahaohaoshenghuorizi，guodexialaijiuzaiciguo，chengbuxiaqule，biantiaoxuanliyi，jishijilingyifangyicijihui，yeshiweizijiyicijihui。

wangshangzixunlihunlvshishiwusuo，zaifuqiganqingpoliedeshixia，jiaruwomenwufashuodongzishenlikeliyi，neimaninengtiaoxuanruhexiyinzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoni?

最后却失败了

fuqiganqingpolie，tiaoxuanwanliuzuihouquebuchenggongdenvxing，zhibuguoyouzheisanzhong。

 diyileinvxing，xiangwanliulingyifang，xinliqueguobushanglaogongchuguidekan。yinci，yimianwanliu，yimianyizhibuduantiguoqu，zaierzhongwaiqudexinlizhuangtaizhongpanghuang。

dierleinvxing，juededisanzhecaisuanshifuqiganqingpoliedegenbenyuanyin，fengkuangyanlidajidisanzhe，renweineiyangzuojiunengwanhuizhangfu，quebuyuan，zishenluoxialailebuhaokandezishi，laogongyiranchaosanmusi。

disanleinvxing，juedegenjudijianquyue，caikeyiranglaogongzhongguijiazhong。keneimezuoyeshirangnanshengzaochenglehushixinlizhuangtai，yongbuduijutifangfa，hunyinshenghuoyiyangmeifaxiubu。

haiyouhenduonvxing，zaizaoyufuqiganqingpolie，laogongmingquetichuliyishi，tongchangbuzhisuocuo，beilingyifangdaizhezou，zuizhongbianchenghunyinshenghuodebeitaotaizhe。

cengjingwolejiedeyigenvhaixiaoyangjiupengdaoleneiyangdenanti，zaizaoyuhunyinshenghuojiangyaoliekaishi，tatiaoxuanlexiubu。yincitayongjiejinquanliquyuelaogong，jingchangzanmeilaogong，duijialidaxiaoshidouzhanhuochulai。tajiang，tazaigenggai，tazaiqinfenxiubuzheiyiduanqinggan。

kewozhijiandaotadegenggailichongmanledijian，xiubuzhongdaishangyouyidequyue。zheixiexiubu，buguoshitazaiqinfenshuodongzishendeyigetuoci。

zhenshidewanliu，buyinggaishizheiyangzide。

修补心态很重要

qingganfashengnanti，meinvmenwangwanghuiyuelaiyuechuyubeidong，shiyouyudajiadexintaibeilingyifangqianzhezou。

zheiyichanghunyinbaoweizhan，dadebianshixintaizhan，nidexintaishibushipingwen，juecezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuodehequhecong。

 yincizaiwanhuizhangfudediyibuli，xinlizhuangtaidejibenjianshehenzhongyao。womenbunengyongbenkuidexintaigenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，zaixintaibulixingshi，rendepanduannengliyehuigensuijiangdi。

zenyangkaizhanxinlizhuangtaijibenjiansheni?

diyi，jienazijidexintai。xintaizishenmeiyouyoulieduiyucuo，dajiadexintai，quanshigenjuduishiqingdefanying。ruguonizhujianyouxintaile，bubijuedezheileiyoushangdexintaibianshicuodeeryigejingdequyayiganta。yayiganzhudexintai，zaowanyehuizaibiedediqubaofachuqu，jieshouxintai，caikeyixiaohuaxishouxintai。

dier，jiangqingxuxuanxiechuqu。ruguonideqingganzaoshoulewaishang，nenggouweizijiyiduanshijian，jiangqingxuxuanxiechuqu。bingweizijiyiduanguoduqi，qumanmanxintaidaozhidechongjixing。

disan，yingyongabcxintaijichulilundiaojiezishenderenzhinengli，xiaohuaxishouxintai。abcxintaijichulilunshiyouyingguoxinlixuezhuanjiaailisijianlide，zhideshizaochengdajiaxintaikunhuodebingbushiwaibuyuangu，zhishilaiyuanyudajiaduishiqingdexintaigenguandian，yiner，genggairenzhinengli，biannengdiaojieqingxu。dajiayiyangnenggouyingyongrenzhinenglixingweiliaofa，zaicidiaozhengzishendexintai。

lihunduihaizideshanghaizhendehendama？ziran，xinlizhuangtaijibenjianshe，buguoshiwanliuairendediyibu，zaixinlizhuangtaijibenjianshejieshuzhihou，caikeyiquqiadangwanliuairen。