怎样让离婚婚姻生活加倍甜蜜呢？

 henduorendoushuo，weishenmelihunnvrenhenhaoshang？chulianqingrenjiuhaoxiangnanyishihuaidebaiyueguang，zhixuchuxianguo，jiuhuiliuyouququzhezhedeyinhen，jingjiubusan。neima，nishibushixiangguo，zheixiecongchulianqingrenlaidaohunyinshenghuodeqinggan，shiyizhongnaxiedecunyou?queshihuixiangxiaoyuanouxiangjulibianneibantianmanzhelanmanyansema?yifangbutongyilihunnengtuoduojiu？

youyiweifensijiugenwoxushuleyiduanneiyangdelijing：

 helaogongzaiputonggaozhongshijiuhuyouhaogan，daxuebenkezaiyiqisinian，shuoshiyanjiusheng2nian。daxuebiyeyinianhou，zaibicibabamamadiducuxia，juecejindaohunyinshenghuo。

neishihouwo28sui，haoxiangyiqiedouzhenghao。congchulianqingrendaohunyinshenghuo，banianduodetanlianaimanpaohuadaolewanmeidejudian。

tanqidajiadeqinggan，quanbupenyoudoujinyouyanxiandefener，danshijishangguorizidaliangdeshilengnuanziru。

dangshizaiyiqishiqueshihuxiangxiai，neishichigetiandiandouhaonengliangsangezhongtou，kanjianlingyifangdeyanshenerlishinongnongdekaixin。

 zhihou，conglianrendaofufu，jinglileshifenduodewuguanjinyao，zhengchaoyejiuwukebimian，zaizhihouyejiuxiguan。zheixienian，tadequeyibianchengwoshengmingzhongbibukeshaodeyibufen，danwozongganjuezheiyifenqingganguozaotarulepingdanwuqi。

 youshi，wonengyanxianzheixieqingganjinglifengfuduocaideren，ganjuetamendeshengmingzhongduoledaliangdebumingheshenmigan。yebuzhiyicixiangguo，ruguodangshimeiyouyushangta，woshibushihaikeyitanyichangbuyiyangdetanlianai?

kedaliangdeqingkuangxia，huanshifourenlezishen，wozaoyibunianqingle，meiyounenggoufangzongdedongxi。

 yifangbutongyilihunnengtuoduojiu？jibianganshouleyouzenyang?wanyibushihe，fushangdehuanshizishen。yinci daliangdeqingkuangxia，yiranhuianzhuzheixiezaodongbuandebugan，liuyixiequehanzaixinlishenchu，qinfenlaiguohaorujinderenshengdaolu。

youxierenshuo：hunyinshenghuodeshiqingbianshi，wulunnijiajileshei，doushihuihouhuimoji。

weishatarenlaikanneimawanmeidecongchulianqingrendaohunyinshenghuo，xiaogushidenvzhujiaoyiranhuiganjueyouquehanni?

neishiyouyuwomenzaiyingduibumingdeqingganshi，yiban doushihuiyouzheisanzhongguannian：

一、非常容易把理想和现实搞混在一起

 dabufennvxingdoushiyouyikexiaogongzhuxin，qipanbeinanrenpengzaishouxinliyibeizi，yizhirichangshenghuozaimenghuanbandequanqiuli，erjuedaduoshunanshengzhizaitanlianaishirichangshenghuozaitonghuali。

 xuduoqingkuangxia，dajiazongxiangxiangzishendelianrenbujinyoulengkuzongcaiyiyangdeqianghan，youyoutongqingdalidewenrou。keshijizhong，neiyangdenanshengjibenshangshibuhuiyoude。

youqishihunhou，bicizuizhenzhengdexiangmaodoujianjiandichengxian，jiuhuidaozhiyidingdexinlizhuangtaiqifu。

 yinci ，jibianshijiajilechulianqingren，yezaisuonanmianminggairuciyiyangderichangshenghuo。lixianghexianshizishizhizhonghuichuxianchabie，jiaruogaobuqing，dangranjiuhuixincunbumanyi。

二、许多情况下，大家一直在结婚后才了解自己

tanlianaideqingkuangxia，xuduonvhaidouganjueruguocuoguoyanxiazheigeren，neimahenyoukenengcongciyubushangneiyangdeqingganle。

 danshijindaohunyinshenghuohou，bansuizherichangshenghuojianjiandizhenzhenghua，buhuizaijinjintanlianaishidehuashiyuexia，henduorenzhujianmanmangaoqingchuzishenzhenshibixudeshisha，yeyulaiyukanqingzijidexinli。nvxingyushengjulaiyoudianminganduoyi，jiuhuirenweihenyoukenengzaiduoyixietiaoxuan，huibirujinhaoxieyixie。

三、获得的东西，最非常容易轻视

 shijishangdabufenrenquanshineiyang，zongjuedemeiyouhuodedecaisuanshizuihaoshide。kandaoleyueliang，haizongshihuidianjizhexingchen;youzhelebaimeigui，youzhujiandiannianhongsemeigui。

 keshirichangshenghuoshijishangyizhiquanshilingsuiershijide，buguanyikaishidajiazaiyiqiyouduolanmanhexingfukuaile，yenanbaozaiyouzhangdehunyinshenghuozhong，bubeiwuguanjinyaosuojiban。

jibiannidangshiganlebuyiyangdetiaoxuan，hebuyiyangderenzaiyiqi，yebukeyiquebaoniyejiuburongyiyouherujinyiyangdeqingxu。

 weishenmelihunnvrenhenhaoshang？huodededongxi，tongchangzuifeichangrongyiqingshi，erzheixiemeiyoushizheguode，queyizhibeiwuyuanwugujiqi。