女人出轨又不愿意离婚怎么办？比背叛婚姻更可怕的“幸福终结者”！

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 shubuzhi，jiulianbicibabamamadoubukanzhongtamendehunyinshenghuo，yuangufeichangjiandan，lunvxinghezhangfudouguishuyuxingzishouhuanying、manhengwulideren。

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 yaobushimengliedezhengzhi，bianshikongbudelengbaoli，zheiyidianxiaodongyeshishenshouqihai。，liangfufuyilengbaolinenggouzhangdadabannianbuhangsheng，goutongjiaoliuquanyaoxiaodonglaixiezhu，danhaozai，youyideshenghuohuanjinghuanshirangxiaodongnenggouhaohaodizhangdale。

 benyiwei，fumunenggouyibeizichaoxialai，xiangbudao，dengxiaodongjinniangaokaowandudaxuedeqingkuangxia，quejingwenfumuzaojiushangyihao，dengxiaodongdudaxuehou，liangfufujiuxuanbuliyi。

 ershi，jinguanyiciciweifumudeguanlianerkunaodexiaodongbengkuile，tameifajienazhihoujiu“meiyoulejia”dejieguo，yincixunzhaodajia，qidaidajiaxiezhuwanliutababamamadefuqiguanxi。

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一、下意识斥责

 jinguanliangfufumeiyouaishangyoufuzhifu，danlianggerenhuanshixiguanxianghuzhijianchize、jifengdeyuyangoutongjiqiao，yonglunvxingdehuaeryan，shiwoshijinianlaiquanshizheiyangderen，yaoxiangwobianhuashibukenengdeshi。

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二、下意识冷暴力

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三、下意识瞧不起

 lunvxinghezhangfuyuanbenquanshidanweilide“yibashou”，dulilaidaonaquanshijujiaodiansuoshu，pianyaolianggerenhuxiangqiaobuqilingyifang，yizhidingzhulingyifangdequexian，jiulianzaigonggongchangheyejinbuzhuxianghuzhijian“jieduan”，yeranglingyifangjuedediumianzi。

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