离婚导致情绪不好人们怎么处理

 fuqilihunduixiaohaieryanshiyichangzaihuo，xiaohaihenyoukenenghuijuedetadequanqiuchedibeicuoluan，ruhediaozhengxintaizenyangbaliyiduixiaohaidesunhaijiangzhizuishaoyouweizhongyao，qingxudiluochushijifuqiganqingpoliedebabamamajigefangmianhaoyongtiyi。

1、请把小孩摆在首位

 zaichulixiaohaijiancenantiyijitaguanjiandiandenantishi，qingbaxiaohaibaizaishouwei。buduanhaozhangshijiandejiancequanzhizhan，duinixiaohaidexinlizhuangtaijiangzaochengbijiaoyanzhongdeweihai。lihunzhihoubiciyebixuweichiyoushandeguanlian。

2、不必让你的孩子添加抗争

 zaixiaohaiyanqianbuyaoshuonizhixiqinshudeshuoxianhua，yebubidangxiaohaiyanqianzhengzhihuotantaotadeyangyunanti，gengweibubiqushinidehaizitiaoxuanqiguandian，birububiwenxiaohai“nishigensuifuqinhuanshigensuimuqin?”、“nijuedeshifuqindecuohuanshimuqindecuo?”deng。

3、提示小孩大家永远爱他

 shinengyunidezhixiqinshuyiqixiangxiaohaifabudajialiyidexinxi，zhenxinshiyibingjianyuedijiangchuzheiyixinxi，raoguozheixiebutaihaodeguanjiandian，nenggouduixiaohaineiyangshuo：“fumunanyiyiqijiaowang，qingxudiluoyinci dajiajuedeshibubirichangshenghuozaiyiqile。”baozheng nidehaizilejieliyijinjinchengnianrenzhongjiandeshi，qingtishinidehaizi，tabingbingbushidajialihunyuanyin。

4、维持小孩的基本日常生活

 huozhifuqilihundexinxi，nidehaizihenyoukenenghuiduizheizhongshijideshierhenganxingqu。wojiangzhuzainaer?woxuyaohuanyuanxiaoma?sheihuidaiwoyiqiqubaomingcanjiayouyongke?lihunzhihou，changshijinliangdiweichixiaohaidejibenrichangshenghuo。

5、教育孩子表述他的体会

 fuqilihun，xiaohaihuichuxianjingshenyali，biru，xiaoyidiandexiaohaihuichuxianyiniao，dayidiandehenyoukenenghuiyuelaiyueyayiganhuobushanyanci。hebabamamayifangbielidejiaolvqingxuhuiweihaidaoxiaohai，keshitamenhenyoukenengburongyikoutoushangbiaoshu，ruhediaozhengxintaiyiner，qingxiezhunidehaizijiangtadeganqingyongwenbenbiaoxianchulai，binggutajinliangyunigongxiangtadetihui。