离婚之后不舍得小孩又不想复婚该怎么办

 lihunzhihoubushedexiaohaiyoubuxiangfuhungaizenmeban，xiaohaishifufubiciaiqingdejiejing。shubuzhizaifufudeqingganlaidaozhongdianzhanshi。xiaohaidesuoshunantiyeshiyidanandian。jiaruzailingyifangdaiqulexiaohai，lihunlehaizizenmebanerzishenjibuyuanyuzhizaihun，youbushedexiaohaidezhuangkuangxia。lihunleyinggaizenmezuoni?

离婚之后不舍得小孩又不想复婚该怎么办

 yuliyimubiaobaochilianluo，jiexiaohailaiduanqineidingju，changchangguanzhuxiaohai。zaifufubicilihunhou，tongchanghuiyouyuxiaohaidenantierzaochenghenduoguji。xiaohaidesuoshunanti，xiaohaizaiguiruyifangyangyuhou，shibushihuiyulingyifangermanmanshengshu。zailihunhou，meiyouhuodehaizidefuyangquandeneiyifang，tongchanghuishenxianwuqiongdetongchuyudanxinzhong。youyutajibushedexiaohai，youbuyuanyulingyifangzaihun。zaishenxianzheigewentideqingkuangxia，dajiayibanyouxialiesanzhongzuofa。jinenggou fangzhiyuliyimubiaozaihun，youkeyifangzhixiaohaiyuzishenriqushengshu。

与离异目标保持联络

 zuixianzailihunhou，yaoshimeiyouhuodexiaohaidehaizifuyangquan。lihunle    neimayaoxiangqinmijiechuxiaohai，jiuyidingyaoyuliyimubiaoweichiyidingdelianxi。bubiyouyuxingfudedingyi，huoshiqitayuangu，jiuyulingyifangmanmanshengshu。zaizheileilianxidequanguochengzhong，dajiajiukeyishunlichengzhangdetidaoyouguanxiaohaidehuatitaolun。haikeyizailingyifangdeyujuzhongzhangwoxiaohaijinqiderichangshenghuo。lingwaihaikeyitishilingyifang，duoliuyixiaohaideyangyunanti。neiyangdajiajiukeyisuishisuidiguanxinxiaohaidexiankuang。buhuiyouyushijianjianjudenantiersangshiyuxiaohaidelianxi，jinershengshulexiaohai。

接小孩来短期内定居

 zaiyulingyifanglihunhou，jiarubushedexiaohaidehua，womenkeyiyulingyifangshangyijiexiaohailaiyuzishenduanqineidedingju。neiyangdeguiding，nenggou shuomingdajiabingbingbushiyaoxiangjiangxiaohaiconglingyifangdeshenpangqiangzou。zuoweixiaohaidelingyifangfumu，neiyangdeguidingshiyouliyoujude。zaiyulingyifangxinpingqihedeshangyiyihou，jianxinlingyifangyehuikaolvdaodajiasuomingquetichudeguiding。erjiexiaohailaiyuzishenduanqineidedingju，neiyangdeyichushibijiaotuchude。youshihoudechupenghuishidajiajinjudeguanchadaohaizichengzhang。fangzhilezaixiaohaichengzhangdeguochengzhong，queshaolebabamamazaiqizhongyifangdeshouhou。neiyangdexiaohaicaikeyifazhanweiyigexinlijiankangderen。

常常关注小孩

 zailihunhou，xiaohaitongchangjingzhishenghuozaiquefababamamazaiqizhongyifangshouhoudejiazhongzhong。erruguowomenmeiyouhuodexiaohaidehaizifuyangquan，neimazaibushedexiaohai，youbuyuanyulingyifangzaihundezhuangkuangxia。changchangguanzhuxiaohaishishifenbiyaode，zuoweixiaohaidebabamama，shixiaohaizaichengzhangjieduanzhongbunengqueshaodeyigeguanjianrenwujiaose。erliyizheileizhuangkuangbidinghuidaozhizaiqizhongdeyifangmeifacanjiahaizichengzhangquanguocheng。jiarubuyuanyuxiaohai，bansuizheshijiandebianhuaerriqushengshu，neima，jiuyingdangzairichangshenghuozhongchangchangguanzhuxiaohai。jijicanjiajinxiaohaiderichangshenghuo，shixiaohaibuyouyuliyieryuzishenbianchengluren。lihunlehaizizenmebanjiarufajuejiehunduixiangbuyizishen，dajiadanenggou wuxubiequzishen，dangduanzeduan，danwomenyaohaijidezheileijianjuebingbudaibiaozhewomenyaoyuxiaohaisangshilianxi。